Comments | marholen: doctors!

marholen

doctors!

Sep 25, 2006 14:12

Here we go, off to the doctors. Just when I thought Christian was getting better, I quickly find out I'm wrong. He kept down his chicken broth and jello last night, so I was hopeful. This morning, he was peppy and looked pretty good, though a little pale, and asked for some Cheerios for breakfast. I figured its a nice bland cereal so sure. He ( Read more... )

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anonymous September 26 2006, 00:31:40 UTC

Ooohhhhhh! the poor little guy!!!! :*( it's horrible when they're sick! :( Rachel was just complaining that her stomach and throat her tonight when she was going to bed... sigh ... I sure hope she's not getting sick!! Hope Christian is feeling better SOON!

uprise September 28 2006, 22:23:18 UTC

This is regarding the post above this. Keep in mind that I love you like family ( ... )

marholen September 29 2006, 13:15:21 UTC

First of all, yes I *DO* want people to bring their issues directly to me. You're wrong, noone has done it, so you presume too much by saying I can't handle it. You may be surprised at how well I handle it given the chance.

Secondly, and I've said this before, bri and I are very careful about not getting pregnant. We use condoms, not that its anyones business but ours. ONCE when we were in Atlanta we didn't, ONE TIME, and we both fully admit it was a mistake. I don't suddenly decide, "Hey, I think this is a good month to think I'm pregnant." I go by the signs my body gives me and so far, thank goodness, they've been wrong. The first time, I had just started some medications that screwed up my cycle. My mistake. Second time, I had just started a new birthcontrol that gave me very severe side effects, ones I had never had before on the pill, and therefore didn't expect. I went to my doctor thinking something was wrong and SHE was the one to suggest I was pregnant, in fact she was sure I was. In July, I had every sign and ( ... )

uprise September 29 2006, 16:36:02 UTC

I had a lot to say to that while reading it, but I've completely given up any hope on trying to get through.

I'll say three things: Brian said specifically to the statement "Use condoms", he said "We do, when we're not drunk." Exact words.

Second. People have said something to you. I know this because this is not the first time I ALONE have said something you about this "behaviour" (for lack of a better word).

Third. Just because you're an adult and can make your own decisions, it does NOT mean in any case, matter or form that they are or will ever be the right decision.

marholen September 29 2006, 19:07:31 UTC

This is not a matter of getting through, I understand and appreciate your concerns. I already showed you that I AGREE with the things you're saying, I don't deny that being pregnant would not be in anyone's best interest right now, but it's not a choice we've made. If I am, its an accident ( ... )