I couldn't agree more!
To me, this is along the same lines as pretending to be something/somebody you aren't in order to be accepted by someone else. What is the point? You either have to continue to try to be someone else, for the rest of your life, or else find out too late that they don't like who you really are! Then you're right back where you started, only with more pain and less time. Makes no sense at all!