Comments | mariecat: Why am i the only one left pregnant?

mariecat

Why am i the only one left pregnant?

Jun 20, 2009 11:59

Man, I had a couple of friends who got knocked up about the same time as me, and they had their babies. I made a friend here who came to my babyshower, but was about a month and half behind me. I'm going to her baby shower today in like 2 hours. Thing is, her water broke earlier this week, and she delivered. At 34 weeks. First off, her and the baby ( Read more... )

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miss_girl June 20 2009, 09:41:46 UTC

for what it's worth I had my baby at 41wks and 1 day :/!! I've read that's like... the average gestational time for first time mommas!

mariecat June 20 2009, 15:28:52 UTC

next tuesday it is then! i'm just getting so anxious. i know you feel me on this one.

miss_girl June 20 2009, 19:01:10 UTC

lol oh yes. I haven't forgotten the "WHY AREN'T YOU OUTSIDE OF ME YET?!" feeling.

aliciarphillips June 20 2009, 10:10:21 UTC

ohh wow you know what ask jared to have sex with you lol me and justin had sex that day or the day before and Abigail came lol it was either the sex or me being anemic that got it going lol and if it turns out that baby is big get a C-section if you dont want you Bajingo destroyed ohh
your not the only one still pregers my cousin still prego she was due 2 days ago and one of my close friends here was due last week they are suppose to induce her i think monday
damn i want to go to Japan and visit you im going to start looking up tickets lol

mariecat June 20 2009, 15:32:10 UTC

i only want a c-section as a last resort. i want to try to keep it as natural as possible, but i know that i'm not going to say no to some type of pain killer.

i've been letting jared have his carnal ways with me, but i just barely tolerate it. it's fairly painful and i've lost all desire for anything sexual months ago, so i'm not too eager. that's one thing i want back to normal, my mojo! i miss it.

badbabie June 20 2009, 13:33:13 UTC

Dude! I feel your pain. It's like insult to injury when everyone else gets to have their kids early too.

walking will help if you can handle it. Try walking as much as you can stand with out making yourself sick.

I know this is totally gross, but there are somethings that will happen leading up to labor and delivery that you don't always hear about. Like diarrhea. Holy crap I had that like nothing else. meals won't stay down as much as they used to.
SEVERE back pain. you'll think you slept wrong. it'll hurt enough to keep you from being able to sleep. these may seem like little pregnancy annoyances but they're also the very beginning of labor.

I hope you have that little guy soon cause I can't wait to see pictures of him :) You're going to be such a great mom

mariecat June 20 2009, 15:27:53 UTC

thank you! i worry about how i'm going to raise my baby, how will i teach him what's right and wrong, how to be a good person, things like that. i'm already scared for the things i can't control, from bullies to the economy to diseases. i'm going to assume there's not much more nerve wrecking than being a first time parent. and it's odd already critiquing other's parenting when i'm not even there yet.

ugh, my back has already been horrid. for about the last two weeks it's been so difficult getting out of bed. it's the repositioning and lifting of my legs. it's getting to the point where i'm almost in tears. but i'll be on the look out for the runs. what an exciting signal of life! our bodies are so silly.

i promise to post pictures as soon as possible. i hope he comes out as cute as your little ones!

badbabie June 21 2009, 13:53:24 UTC

Being a new mom can be totally insane and awesome at the same time. You have this great quality of being a kid at heart so you'll be a super fun mom.
I used to think i would worry about bullies, but when Miles had a bully at daycare he seemed to handle it fairly well.
I don't remember reading if you picked out a name? Do you have a name for your little dude yet?
Little boys are so much fun. They are fearless. Mine jumps off of EVERYTHING.

mariecat June 21 2009, 14:11:58 UTC

we have some names set aside, but we want to see him first and then see which name is for him. i guess we're not too worried, we already nixed any names that could get him teased for. since his last initial is S, no names that start with A or B. for some reason, all our names that we like start with L.