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[marinewolf]

ok, i have a problem with this guy, come to find out he has been married for 6 years and he has to kids, 5 and 6. but i told him that i think i will try to work it out. but another thing, hes willing to leave his kids to be with me, i told him thats not right. he said they dont even know him and he wants a whole family. this is getting weird, i am

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[her_own_monster]

Whoa. That's some really scary shit. Please, Ursula, be VERY VERY careful with this guy- he doesn't sound like a very savory character, y'know?

[marinewolf]

yeah i know its scary, and im scared...but i dont know what to do?! i feel like i went into this too far already, i feel like theres no turning back and that scares me. why do you think hes moving so fast?

[balmungazuresky]

It is in my pure opinion that you should not be serious with this man, at least not for now. By the way i see it, he was been married for 6 years and has 5 & 6 yr old kids. Which (in my eyes) means it has not been long since the divorce. Also, assuming there has been a divorce instead of just being separated, but still legally married. Possible motives for him moving so fast

[shadowednight]

I'd rethink the whole serious boyfriend thing if I were you. Sounds like he has alot of baggage that you don't know about. I'd be very careful with this guy.

[night_evenstar]

Yeah, it does sound like he has alot of baggage . Give it more time before rushing into anything if he's genuine then he will still feel the same way!

*hugs*

[marinewolf]

but do you think it would probably be a good idea to pursue this as a serious relationship? in due time? or should i just drop this whole thing? so confusing..that and hes also a cancer! that would explain for him wanting to settle down again and have kids, i just dont want him to make me into a house wife baby machine.