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[marshabrady9]

so maybe andrew (the really cute one who is blonde and 6'8'') likes me. i mean he invited me along when he was going to berkeley, and he called me on friday to see what i was doing. problem: im dating derek. and sure we say its an "open relationship", but really...we act more like a real relationship than a lot of other couples do. anyway, i really

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[rikkispice]

ooooh, what a dilemma, two men love me!! boo hooo!!! hahahah...just kidding heather!! i totally know that this situation SUCKS. so heres what you do...well, okay, i dont really have advice. lol. but lets see if i can make sense... you and derek have an "open relationship". who's idea was it?? either way, it is what it is...open. date andrew (when he makes his move, and he totally will cuz youre super gorgeous!) and let derek know. tell him that the relationship you both established was open, so unless he wants to step it up and commit, youre gunna live your life baby!! hahaha. seriously, though. you have to be happy. thats whats important. and if derek is playing stupid games and junk like that, then maybe he needs to be told "hey fool, heather has plenty of options, dont waste your time being a jerkasoraus or you could loose her." cuz its VERY true that you dont realize what you have until its gone. relationships need to be on mutual terms. i love you so much and i hope i helped at least a little :) i just want you to be HAPPY. so

[kimsasupahstah]

I think that if you were truly super happy with Derek, you wouldn't even have to ponder whether or not you'll date someone else... if that makes any sense. I miss you. I need some girl time.

[shoanen_ayan]

we need to talk.. soon.. and not just about this, but something.. yup, something. It's important.