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Paradigms
Cane told me this a couple of days ago and I have been thinking about it and realized that this is too important not to write ( Read more... ) -
Cane
No, he's not blue-eyed ( Read more... ) -
The yang of being tired
It's been a long and wonderful day for me.
- it took me three hours to get to the yoga hall where the CI workshop took place;
- on my way there I was analyzing literature for the paper I'm working on, and I finally found some pleasure in it; then I was reading Ken Wilber's "Fourth Turning" of Buddhism - fascinating ( Read more... ) -
The Power of Feedback
I love acknowledging and celebrating the success. "Lavish in praise", I once said. I love saying thank you every time I feel like it.
I had a model in my head, a model of a feedback. Brené has a wonderful chapter in her book, "Daring greatly", on vulnerability as a core of the feedback. Here's the printout. So, let us take the situation where both ( Read more... ) -
By 'I want' I mean...
For a month I've been exploring what 'I want' is and the day before yesterday I felt that I reached a milestone.
[Let us define the notions!]
In most cases 'I want to do X' for me means not future simple or continuous but present perfect continuousI'm not talking about cases like 'I want to have a fruit salad for tomorrow's breakfast' or 'I want to wear this particular suit ( Read more... ) -
Раздолбайство aka Overnight 3. Ресурс. Давать вес
Раз предыдущие посты про раздолбайство ( здесь и здесь) я писала по-русски, завершу этим, написав его тоже по-русски.
[Итак, пункт первый, завершение (for now) моего исследования границ собственного раздолбайства]Итак, пункт первый, завершение (for now) моего исследования границ собственного раздолбайства ( Read more... ) -
"Forever tries"
Today I want to share a quotation from this book recommended by Brené on her list of favourites. i noticed the word, 'unarmed', because I wrote this haiku while being in India, "Сердцем в каждый миг. / Безоружным встретить всё, / Что пошлёт судьба", - and I bought the book to my Kindle app. At first it was hard to read because of the brutal and ( Read more... ) -
Spinning time
In the previous entry I was writing about a Dance which marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life. Today I feel that I can put into words what I see in this new chapter ( Read more... ) -
The Dance
On the 30th of March at about 10.40 p.m. I did something that marked my growth, my exploration of myself, my courage and the beginning of my new journey. I took it seriously enough then but only now I am realizing the whole meaning of this.
[Read more.]On the 30th of March at about 10.40 p.m. I performed a dance. The Dance. I had been working on this dance ( Read more... ) -
Overnight 2. Solution for 'no more invitations'.
Я думаю, что в ближайшие 24 часа я смогу это, кхм, embrace.
Лучший вывод, к которому я пришла за эту ночь и это утро:
Если человек может делать грандиозно-гениальные вещи в последнюю ночь и всех ими очаровать, - так дай ему эту последнюю ночь. Ложись спать раньше полуночи и проверь почту утром ( Read more... )