Heavy Stuff
Today I asked the question, what do i really think of sex, ok been a while since i've had it, thats for a good reason called choice, not because i can't get any before anyone says it, but when thinking about it i came out with some heavy shit, so here it is.
Physical & Emotional Dimensions
What do I think of sex, to answer that question I need to explain the ideas that I have on some basics on how I think this world works. Most things can have properties of what I call physical and emotional dimensions. Physical being how you feel and are able to interact with something, like we do everyday and the less noted dimension the emotional which is more apparent in relationships, the memories, choices, and mental effects of an object or being.
For example a table is just something you can place things on, use to lean on, but behind those physical everyday ideas there is much more emotional attachments lying deeper. The fact it is made of wood of a tree from South America, further then most people have travelled. Or maybe the fact the tree it is from once helped the survival of an animal, part of a colony of plants, the emotional links can be endless, this is why humans decide it is worthless and discard it, but when it comes to something like the opposite sex the result can be disastrous.
A female for a man in a physical meaning is someone to have a good time, touch feel, and share enjoyment, if it be sexual or not. But I see there could be a deeper emotional network behind this; this could explain the emotion of love. And this deeper emotional meaning is what I have become to looking for in my ‘ideal’ girl. Without understanding and feeling both dimensions you are only getting half if that out of a relationship (or sexual intercourse), this is why so many feel love is an important factor before committing to such things as sexual intercourse. Without thinking about this second dimension I am worried I might have found myself wondering what was missing from a relationship, now I think I can find the girl that will help myself feel spiritually and physically whole.
Just tell me if you think its a load of crap, which i expect alot of you might...