The one thing we always remind our clients is that as long as they are happy and playing and feeling ok, they think everything is normal. They don't worry about it, because they don't have the anticipation of death that we do. As long as she's still having great days, you shouldn't have to feel guilty about letting her have them. You love her, and you'll know when it's time.
Losing a year with my animals was the hardest part about being so far away. You know you are in my thoughts and you know I understand how hard this is for you. Don't let anyone tell you what to do. I trust that you will know. *hugs*
Thanks, hon. Give me a couple of weeks and hopefully I'll be feeling more social. I know you have entries I want to read and was looking forward to a phone chat one of these days.
I know you're thinking about us and I *really* appreciate it, Miss you! {{{hugs}}}
I'm so sorry hon. I remember the introductions to your wonderful animals. They truly are amazing! I think that if she's still having good days, then it's right to keep her with you. You'll know when the time is right. I'm glad that you shared all of them with us. You hang in there ok? *Hugs you hard*
Thanks, hon. I had her at the vet yesterday and her weight is actually up since her diagnosis. That means the prednizone she is on is helping for the time being. You take care! ♥
Oh, my dear friend. I am so very sorry. My heart breaks for you.
I've been down this very same road, you see. Twice, if not three times. My old girl, Rose, left us at age 10, with lymphoma. Our 11 year old Dolly went just months later, same thing. When Dolly's older sister, Della, also failed we just ... made her comfortable, watched the days and finally said goodbye.
All I can say is, you'll know when it's time. In the meanwhile, Dyna will continue to delight and amuse you, and so long as she is happy and enjoying quality of life, it's okay. She knows neither fear nor dread anticipation. She just knows you and her family and your love.
Rose let us know by simply retiring. She withdrew, she grew thin, she grew quiet. Dolly did much the same, just quietly faded until it was clear she was simply too tired. It broke our hearts each time, but the decision was just there to be made
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Thank-you, lady. You are always so eloquent with your words and thoughts and these were beautiful and touching and very, very helpful. I remember you losing your girls and know you know what I'm going through. ♥
I have to admit I'm a little scared of facing this alone. The prednizone has her weight up a bit and she seems to be doing better than simply holding her own. Hubby's going to be away for his annual pheasant hunting trip the first week of November though and, there's that selfish/fearful part of me that wants to lose her before then if I'm not 'guaranteed' she'll see his trip through ::sigh:: I'm such a coward! I won't let her go before-hand though of course, not unless she's ready. In the meantime I *will* find peace in her happy bounce, her silly smile, her boundless energy. Letting her fill my heart is the easy part ;). Thanks again and give each of your furry beasts a head-scratch and a hug for me {{{hugs}}}
Oh I am so feeling your pain. I think I posted a month or so ago, my youngest has bladder cancer. Except for urination (everywhere) she seems okay. But I am so on the fence about putting her down. She looks okay but how long do I keep her around? I mean, she is stoic and doesn't really let us know how she is feeling. She is eating, but with less enthusiasm. She is on chemo (which upsets her stomach) and pills to stop the constant urination and pills to stop her upset stomach and acck... I just don't know.
In any case, I am sure you understand and you have counseled me about the same thing, but you'll know when you have to make that decision. You are right too, she looks happy right now, there is a lot to be said about that. She is eating, playing, enjoying her life. Love her! Oh and you are worthy of the devotion. Dogs don't lie, hon.
Oh, lady, I've been so out of touch during this past summer I had no idea of your own turmoil and troubles. My heart goes out to you too. I hate that we're sharing this heartache and responsibility. I've always believed that this ability we have to choose the time is a gift, even if it is so damn difficult. But, sometimes it's a gift that comes way too soon and that makes it that much harder
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The one thing we always remind our clients is that as long as they are happy and playing and feeling ok, they think everything is normal. They don't worry about it, because they don't have the anticipation of death that we do. As long as she's still having great days, you shouldn't have to feel guilty about letting her have them. You love her, and you'll know when it's time.
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I know you're thinking about us and I *really* appreciate it, Miss you! {{{hugs}}}
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I've been down this very same road, you see. Twice, if not three times. My old girl, Rose, left us at age 10, with lymphoma. Our 11 year old Dolly went just months later, same thing. When Dolly's older sister, Della, also failed we just ... made her comfortable, watched the days and finally said goodbye.
All I can say is, you'll know when it's time. In the meanwhile, Dyna will continue to delight and amuse you, and so long as she is happy and enjoying quality of life, it's okay. She knows neither fear nor dread anticipation. She just knows you and her family and your love.
Rose let us know by simply retiring. She withdrew, she grew thin, she grew quiet. Dolly did much the same, just quietly faded until it was clear she was simply too tired. It broke our hearts each time, but the decision was just there to be made ( ... )
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I have to admit I'm a little scared of facing this alone. The prednizone has her weight up a bit and she seems to be doing better than simply holding her own. Hubby's going to be away for his annual pheasant hunting trip the first week of November though and, there's that selfish/fearful part of me that wants to lose her before then if I'm not 'guaranteed' she'll see his trip through ::sigh:: I'm such a coward! I won't let her go before-hand though of course, not unless she's ready. In the meantime I *will* find peace in her happy bounce, her silly smile, her boundless energy. Letting her fill my heart is the easy part ;). Thanks again and give each of your furry beasts a head-scratch and a hug for me {{{hugs}}}
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In any case, I am sure you understand and you have counseled me about the same thing, but you'll know when you have to make that decision. You are right too, she looks happy right now, there is a lot to be said about that. She is eating, playing, enjoying her life. Love her! Oh and you are worthy of the devotion. Dogs don't lie, hon.
My heart breaks for you.
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