I think sometimes it's better not to know there's anything wrong with you. Lately my half-assed facial recognition skills have been driving me crazy. I was less frustrated when I thought everyone else was the same as me
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I really don't remember people very well either - although I would remember them more if I saw them more frequently. I really don't remember names - honestly - I think I just don't care because I have too much information for other things other than strangers. So when I meet someone new I usually warn them - hey I am really bad at names - so if I forget your name please forgive me. I think you could easily say - I am really bad at faces - so if you see me again - just please remind me of your name and 'flip turns' and it will be easier for me to recognize you.
Now I know you don't want to do this in a medical situation - but socially its totally plausible Erica - people would rather be warned than think you were being snotty to them.
happened to me at lunch. had NO idea who the dude in line behind me who was all.. bare glimmers of recognition. 'Hey.. manda. what are you doing here?' was... Made small talk for a while. Didn't place him until he asked about danRay, and I'm like.. OH danRay's biology major ex-coworker from trader joe's. Still don't know the dude's name. Gave him a ride home a couple of times.
It's like people who recognize me from bike racing. the women are definitely easier to recognize.. but it still takes me a WHILE to recognize when they aren't in spandex. I don't have much of a chance with recognizing guys.. who will sometimes pop up at work, in meetings, and i so don't recognize 'em at ALL, because they are all out of context. and really. in a work meeting you can't say.. turn around. bend over, drool a bit.... and check out their butt in hopes that maybe i'll figure out who it is.
Mmm... athlete butt. And that was the problem with the NYC marathon - it was cold, and the men were all wearing too many clothes for me to drool over runner butts and legs. I was very sad.
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I really don't remember people very well either - although I would remember them more if I saw them more frequently. I really don't remember names - honestly - I think I just don't care because I have too much information for other things other than strangers. So when I meet someone new I usually warn them - hey I am really bad at names - so if I forget your name please forgive me. I think you could easily say - I am really bad at faces - so if you see me again - just please remind me of your name and 'flip turns' and it will be easier for me to recognize you.
Now I know you don't want to do this in a medical situation - but socially its totally plausible Erica - people would rather be warned than think you were being snotty to them.
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It's like people who recognize me from bike racing. the women are definitely easier to recognize.. but it still takes me a WHILE to recognize when they aren't in spandex. I don't have much of a chance with recognizing guys.. who will sometimes pop up at work, in meetings, and i so don't recognize 'em at ALL, because they are all out of context. and really. in a work meeting you can't say.. turn around. bend over, drool a bit.... and check out their butt in hopes that maybe i'll figure out who it is.
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And that was the problem with the NYC marathon - it was cold, and the men were all wearing too many clothes for me to drool over runner butts and legs. I was very sad.
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