Well, I think you're in the right place for support... I wish you the best of luck. Trying to find the truth about yourself can be a really hard journey.
On a lighter note, I totally love your screen name. <3
I felt like that a couple of years ago. And it did get better. I'm happy now and confident with myself and who I am.
Hopefully the same will happen for you.
You need help discovering who you are, I'm trying to think of a way to help you through the interent.
The way I did it was imagining being with another woman, just a random woman that didn't look like anyone I knew. And when I did that it felt right.
I tried to imagine being with a man and couldn't, and realised I was a lesbian, not bisexual.
It's a kind of abstract way of doing it. I don't know if that helps you at all. It's different for everyone.
I know finding friends that were gay (mostly male) helped me a lot. They were very supportive of me. Do you have any male friends that are gay? That you would feel comfortable talking to?
Good luck and I hope this community helps you in some way.
In the same situationbruisesonguitarApril 29 2007, 23:36:27 UTC
Hey ankh, i am in a simular situation. i confused and i dont know what to do. can u anyone help me out. i have a bf but i always thought of girls sometimes..inmy spare time..i know im not a lesbian..or am i? -manda
Re: In the same situationbruisesonguitarApril 29 2007, 23:41:49 UTC
I really don't know what to say apart from what I've written in my above comment.
Maybe you'd like to create an anonymous LJ account (separate to your usual one) and make an entry in the community so other people might be able to offer advice.
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On a lighter note, I totally love your screen name. <3
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Hopefully the same will happen for you.
You need help discovering who you are, I'm trying to think of a way to help you through the interent.
The way I did it was imagining being with another woman, just a random woman that didn't look like anyone I knew. And when I did that it felt right.
I tried to imagine being with a man and couldn't, and realised I was a lesbian, not bisexual.
It's a kind of abstract way of doing it. I don't know if that helps you at all. It's different for everyone.
I know finding friends that were gay (mostly male) helped me a lot. They were very supportive of me. Do you have any male friends that are gay? That you would feel comfortable talking to?
Good luck and I hope this community helps you in some way.
~ Ankh
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-manda
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Maybe you'd like to create an anonymous LJ account (separate to your usual one) and make an entry in the community so other people might be able to offer advice.
Good luck!
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