Dudette, if they're going to be that ungrateful of you coming back to help with the decorating, even though you're trying to have your own life too, just don't even go home and help with the decorating. However, I suspect you'll still go home and help decorate anyways... just make sure if/when you do, you stick to your guns and come back for the party/s you wanted to go to. Your family needs to understand that while you care about them, and you like to do what you can to help them, they can not expect you to drop ~everything~ and give up your own plans for anything short of an emergency.
Go out, have a little fun, and if they don't understand, that's their problem.
As important as it is to stand up for yourself, and be able to stand hard and firm where you believe regardless of someone supporting you, I know how much it means to have someone there to watch your back. So I'm glad to be there for you.
Good luck with dealing with the halloween thing. ^_^ And even though we don't get a chance to talk much anymore, I'm usually signed online, and I will typically get IMs even if I'm away and/or I sign off after it's sent, since gaim doesn't close windows on me when signing out. So if you need to talk, just give a yell. We'll find a way to get it to work. ^_^
hey yo.. just be like... Guys, You've had me for 21 years now. It's about time you learn how to share. I mean c'mon you're going to be their family after Halloween still.. and you'll still be their family next Halloween.. however you will NOT be in Pdam next Halloween. Don't give in. Go home if you really want to Friday, but damnit, come back on Saturday. There's only one Halloween left in Pdam, theres 60 or more left at home. Miss you Love you!
PS I havent been able to get ahold of my friend Amanda yet. But when I do I will be absolutely sure to ask her about going up.
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Go out, have a little fun, and if they don't understand, that's their problem.
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Good luck with dealing with the halloween thing. ^_^ And even though we don't get a chance to talk much anymore, I'm usually signed online, and I will typically get IMs even if I'm away and/or I sign off after it's sent, since gaim doesn't close windows on me when signing out. So if you need to talk, just give a yell. We'll find a way to get it to work. ^_^
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PS I havent been able to get ahold of my friend Amanda yet. But when I do I will be absolutely sure to ask her about going up.
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