Oh my God!!!!

[mctira]

You'll never guess what happened today. After bio lecture this morning I went over to Jeff's. He wasn't there, but I decided to hang around anyway. I went to go sit at his computer as it has the best chair in the room. I was reading a paper he had written for psych when I noticed an IM from Tracy that had been sidebarred. I was curious and nosy so

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[thors_warrior]

That is so wrong...
Do what your heart tells you to do. If you believe, even slightly, that Jeff is cheating on you then you should confront him and give him a chance to be honest. Don't expect him to be honest immediately, give him a deadline, like two days or something to get his head straight. If he doesn't come up with a reason that convinces you then dump him. You cut off ties with him; cold turkey, radio silence, walking dead, or whatever you want to call it...
If you don't believe he cheating on you then continue on as normal but look for signs...
Good Luck and don't be sad...
If he is doing something then it is his fault that he will miss out on spending time with a great woman and being loved by her. He will regret it later. You don't need to suffer on his behalf though...
Your strong and capable just live. Nothing much to it...

[t0rm3nt]

Hm, don't be so quick to stab Jeff here. Call this wishful hope, but who knows what that "I love you" means. There's so many different levels of it, so maybe he's telling the truth when he says it's friendship love. You guys have been through a ton, so to just... Throw it all away seems unfair. Maybe this is wishful thinking, but I don't know...

I say "love you" to some of my friends. Does that mean I'm a lesbian? Uh, no. It's just an expression that says I care. "I love you" has become so... Jaded. I strongly recommend looking into this more. It looks bleak, but it's best to know for sure. =\ I'm sorry...

[mctira]

You're right of course. The thing is, if he had said it to anyone else, I would have been fine. It's just that Tracy is always saying that he's cheating and sending me conversations as proof. Then to see one on his computer that has nothing to do with Tracy (as in she couldn't have falsified it) just pushed me over the edge.

[elyefont]

Amen, and if he needs that whack in the crotch then don't be afraid to call me up! i am more than willing to beat up guys for my friends. and lying guys would make me even happier to beat up on them.
does that make me sound mean?

[thors_warrior]

You guys are very unoriginal when it comes to pain and stuff. You guys could at least done some research or resorted to some pyschological warfare first or even decided who you wanted to believe before deciding to kick ass...

I mean come on... A little observation and time are much more better than beating the shit out of someone hoping to get a smattering of the truth. Sure it is fun but rarely ever solves anything. If you decide he is bad ignore him, walk away, pretend he doesn't exist and when he comes to you then kick his ass when he is not expecting that way you are clear legally...
Even then there are sooo many fun things you can do that still leave him very alive...