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[mczee]

This is explicit and personal, and don't read it if you don't want to know intimate details about my sex life. If you want to know, and want to understand, and want to get pissed off, and want to maybe understand yourself better...

Comments

[sssstephi]

AMEN. That's all I have to say. You said everything I have been thinking.

[rebel000yell]

If I had any say in this whole argument, I'd totally agree. Well said.

[hotpotato]

Another amen. Especially the second-to-last paragraph; would that we could all keep this in mind. You're so brave/strong to post this, Mackenzie. Good on you. :)

[novae_scion]

Not to immediately start with my own shit, but I'm in a class on this sort of thing right now; our culture of male dominance and female submission, trite as it is to cite it as a reality, IS a reality.

Men are expected to get their rocks off with women who have made themselves into sexual objects; the level of sexual ignorance in our society is horrifying, and the fact that you have been through all of these experiences, essentially alone, is horrifying beyond belief in itself.

You are one hundred percent correct, Mackenzie. Sex is something beautiful which shouldn't be "pleasure" unto itself, but a mutually shared experience that is satisfying and connecting.

Girl, you laid it out there, and we are receiving that gospel. Women are not to be trained to service men, and men are not to be trained to train women to service them. You are one mind awake in this shitbog of sexual confusion, thank God. Hopefully you will be able to secure for yourself a mutually excellent sexual relationship, because fuck, you deserve it.

Love you so

[novae_scion]

and thank you for posting this, sweetheart. You are most definitely loved and appreciated.

[lizzy_bigwood]

Okay, so I think I finally figured out everything I felt the need to say about this post