Comments | medgirl4: Stresses.....and solutions?

medgirl4

Stresses.....and solutions?

Nov 06, 2005 22:56

So, for those of you who don't know, my life has went down the hole. And the only one I can blame for any of this is myself. I know that sounds dramatic, but it's the honest truth. Ryan and I broke up. I said I needed some me time to get my life in order and back on track. So I asked if we could just be friends for a bit. I know that both of ( Read more... )

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I know this is long, but... blueyz24 November 8 2005, 02:02:22 UTC

I don’t think it’s fair for you to blame yourself for how you are feeling. It takes a lot of courage and strength to take a step back and not only recognize that you aren’t feeling 100% okay on the inside, but attempting to fix it. It shows how much you truly care about Ryan ~ allowing yourself to find what you need to make yourself okay again. It seems he really cares for you too ~ letting you do this despite how much it may hurt him. Love can be a many splendored thing. But relationships are work. Loving someone doesn’t guarantee a perfect ending. It never has and never will. Love isn’t a contract. Life, friendships, family, lovers ~ these are all works in progress. You have them, you live them, and you learn from them ( ... )

Re: I know this is long, but... medgirl4 November 8 2005, 03:27:51 UTC

I'm so glad that you took the time to read my long rant. One of the things I didn't post was about communication and how I need to improve on that. I think that sitting down and clearing my mind by typing all this is one of the best things that I could have done. I really felt better after doing it. I know that this is just another hurdle on the track of life, but I'll finish the race. There have been no tears today surprisingly. I'm still sad on the inside, but I now understand that I have to love myself before I can ever truely love anyone else. I hope that Ryan will still continue to understand what I'm going through, and hopefully be there for me so that we can love each other. But for now I have to take the attitude and cliche "Everything will work out how it's supposed to in the end"

On a good note...
We really need to get together and party!