this story may have a sad ending.

[mediumgrey]

the sun has started to shine, after a many months of things being quite dry and bleak

Comments

[mahasin]

Take the job, see her on weekends, email her everyday etc, etc.

Long Distance relationships can work if you're romantic.

[exfil]

Job first. Things don't necessarily have to end because you might move, and if there is mutual attraction, then weekend visits either by her to you or vice versa would be a good thing, no?

[mediumgrey]

i suppose, i'm damaged when it comes to that shit though, only had to do long distance once (a year into the relationship) and it fell to shit.

[exfil]

Hmmm...I suppose you wouldn't really be able to decide anything until you find out about the job. If I was in your position, I would probably ask myself 2 questions to figure out which way you should lean. Would it hurt you more if you guys tried long distance and it fell apart (but at least you tried?), or would it hurt more if you guys decided to cool it until you came back and she found someone else or you found someone else? Which scenario would keep you awake at night?

[mediumgrey]

well really it's too premature to talk about it on both fronts (girl or work). we've only been seeing each other a few weeks...but i admit it's pretty good. i guess the real question is would she even be receptive to the idea of doing something like that, should i get the job.

[johndove]

talk to her, dude. two heads are better than one - especially if you guys are on the same page. but i would go for the job first...i mean, unless you know right away that this girl is who you've been looking for, chances are you will meet another that will have the same level of connection/attraction.