the choice

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do i take financial help from the father who has never offered in past or do i go it alone even though i'm broke. this is in regards to student loans

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[exfil]

If taking the $ from your father makes a difference as to whether or not you can comfortably buy food and afford other necessities until you're able to find more work in your field, I would take it. If your father is the type who will constantly bring up the issue once you take his help, I would try to get your loans into forebearance status or some kind of reduction plan.

[mad_m]

is it a gift or a loan from your dad?

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it would be a gift. my mother took payments over for 2 loans of mine and my sister's and the pops hasn't offered to help till now.

[mad_m]

i'd take it then.