East Rutherford Catholic church's gay music director to quit over priest's sermon
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East Rutherford Catholic church's gay music director to quit over priest's sermon
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2011
BY DEON J. HAMPTON
STAFF WRITER
THE RECORD
EAST RUTHERFORD - A gay Catholic church musician on Wednesday said he will voluntarily leave his post in two weeks because his pastor allegedly created a hostile work environment after preaching against homosexuality.
“Marriage between two men is a lie,” Robert Russell, who has been a music minister at St. Joseph Parish for 22 years, said the newly appointed pastor preached to the congregation July 10.
The Rev. Joseph Astarita, who became pastor of the church in July, declined to comment.
Jim Goodness, Archdiocese of Newark spokesman, also declined to comment on the resignation. But he did say, “Catholic churches are allowed to employ people based on [the church’s] belief.”
The Vatican does not condone homosexuality.
“My feeling at that point was to walk out,” Russell, 58, of Hackensack said of the alleged comments made during the sermon. “But I didn’t because I have a responsibility to the choir and church.”
He said he met with Astarita in August to discuss the remarks and to reveal he was gay and had a partner of 15 years.
“His comments against gay marriage were insensitive and uncomfortable,” said Russell, who admitted he felt pressured to leave his job. He has retained attorney David L. Wikstrom.
Wikstrom said that Russell “couldn't properly perform his work because of his sexuality, thus creating a hostile and adverse work environment.”
According to Russell, the pastor expressed concern about his involvement in a yet-to-be created children’s choir and allegedly told him he would be a “poor example.”
Russell said he taught drama and English at Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington between 1989 and 1997 when he was laid off due to budget cuts, and has remained involved with the school since his departure. The high school, which is under the auspices of the archdiocese, listed Russell on its website as co-director of its school musicals for 26 years.
Astarita asked the musician whether homosexuality was inherent or a choice, Russell said, adding that he responded “it’s inherent.”
“The pastor told me I could change my sexuality through therapy,” the musician said.
Longtime church member Pam Lakefield was in the congregation when Astarita preached the sermon and said his comments were “offensive,” and that the priest is teaching horrible thoughts.
“He’s losing parishioners,” said Lakefield, a member since 1970, who is strongly considering leaving the church.
St. Joseph members say the church has traditionally been liberal, but the pastor is “ultra-conservative.”
The parish was once led by the Rev. Mychal Judge, chaplain of the New York Fire Department who was the first confirmed death of the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks. In the years since his death, it has been widely reported that Judge was a celibate gay priest.
Russell said the church has been run by the Franciscan order for the past 99 years. But the order gave up the church in July due to low staffing numbers and the archdiocese took over in July, he said. Astarita joined the church after the change.
Russell said his last day will be Sept. 30.
“I felt his words were an attack on my integrity and I felt it was hostile and it was harassment.”
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I understand very well the controversy over homosexuality in religion but it also is becoming widely more inappropriate in regards to actions like these. Just because a person is homosexual doesn't mean they can't be religious or hold faith in a high being. I may sound like hypocritical, as I don't like slash fan-fiction and I don't go to church, but I have my own beliefs and morals as well. Just because I don't like reading/hearing of slash, doesn't mean I don't support gay rights.
I applaud this man for standing up. As they said, the church had been welcoming before, but to outwardly speak like that when you know that one of your parishioners, your colleague, etc, is gay is fucked up.
I don't go to church and haven't for awhile. I'm can't stand the double talk and backstabbing that goes on at my family's church. My grandmother still goes but every time she comes home more pissed then when she left the house because of comments of other people or the priest. Churches cry that they are losing followers and wants those still there to do something about it. It won't fix anything until people admit what is wrong and sometimes it starts at the top.
My grandmother and I talked and she has been strongly considering going to another church because she is tired of the crap they put on her and the double standards. I think I shocked her when I said if she does change churches, I would start going again (at least to see if the other is more welcoming before I commit fully to going regularly or volunteering for any services).
East Rutherford Catholic church's gay music director to quit over priest's sermon
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2011
BY DEON J. HAMPTON
STAFF WRITER
THE RECORD
EAST RUTHERFORD - A gay Catholic church musician on Wednesday said he will voluntarily leave his post in two weeks because his pastor allegedly created a hostile work environment after preaching against homosexuality.
“Marriage between two men is a lie,” Robert Russell, who has been a music minister at St. Joseph Parish for 22 years, said the newly appointed pastor preached to the congregation July 10.
The Rev. Joseph Astarita, who became pastor of the church in July, declined to comment.
Jim Goodness, Archdiocese of Newark spokesman, also declined to comment on the resignation. But he did say, “Catholic churches are allowed to employ people based on [the church’s] belief.”
The Vatican does not condone homosexuality.
“My feeling at that point was to walk out,” Russell, 58, of Hackensack said of the alleged comments made during the sermon. “But I didn’t because I have a responsibility to the choir and church.”
He said he met with Astarita in August to discuss the remarks and to reveal he was gay and had a partner of 15 years.
“His comments against gay marriage were insensitive and uncomfortable,” said Russell, who admitted he felt pressured to leave his job. He has retained attorney David L. Wikstrom.
Wikstrom said that Russell “couldn't properly perform his work because of his sexuality, thus creating a hostile and adverse work environment.”
According to Russell, the pastor expressed concern about his involvement in a yet-to-be created children’s choir and allegedly told him he would be a “poor example.”
Russell said he taught drama and English at Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington between 1989 and 1997 when he was laid off due to budget cuts, and has remained involved with the school since his departure. The high school, which is under the auspices of the archdiocese, listed Russell on its website as co-director of its school musicals for 26 years.
Astarita asked the musician whether homosexuality was inherent or a choice, Russell said, adding that he responded “it’s inherent.”
“The pastor told me I could change my sexuality through therapy,” the musician said.
Longtime church member Pam Lakefield was in the congregation when Astarita preached the sermon and said his comments were “offensive,” and that the priest is teaching horrible thoughts.
“He’s losing parishioners,” said Lakefield, a member since 1970, who is strongly considering leaving the church.
St. Joseph members say the church has traditionally been liberal, but the pastor is “ultra-conservative.”
The parish was once led by the Rev. Mychal Judge, chaplain of the New York Fire Department who was the first confirmed death of the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks. In the years since his death, it has been widely reported that Judge was a celibate gay priest.
Russell said the church has been run by the Franciscan order for the past 99 years. But the order gave up the church in July due to low staffing numbers and the archdiocese took over in July, he said. Astarita joined the church after the change.
Russell said his last day will be Sept. 30.
“I felt his words were an attack on my integrity and I felt it was hostile and it was harassment.”
SOURCE
I understand very well the controversy over homosexuality in religion but it also is becoming widely more inappropriate in regards to actions like these. Just because a person is homosexual doesn't mean they can't be religious or hold faith in a high being. I may sound like hypocritical, as I don't like slash fan-fiction and I don't go to church, but I have my own beliefs and morals as well. Just because I don't like reading/hearing of slash, doesn't mean I don't support gay rights.
I applaud this man for standing up. As they said, the church had been welcoming before, but to outwardly speak like that when you know that one of your parishioners, your colleague, etc, is gay is fucked up.
I don't go to church and haven't for awhile. I'm can't stand the double talk and backstabbing that goes on at my family's church. My grandmother still goes but every time she comes home more pissed then when she left the house because of comments of other people or the priest. Churches cry that they are losing followers and wants those still there to do something about it. It won't fix anything until people admit what is wrong and sometimes it starts at the top.
My grandmother and I talked and she has been strongly considering going to another church because she is tired of the crap they put on her and the double standards. I think I shocked her when I said if she does change churches, I would start going again (at least to see if the other is more welcoming before I commit fully to going regularly or volunteering for any services).