It is going to be really hard to forget about him and stop liking him. People need to understand that its not easy at all. I am going through the same thing. I love Dion still and I can't forget about him. I have met such a nice guy... but I still miss Dion and in a way want to take him back but I just can't... something holds me back.
We need to be strong... and people need to support us in any decision we make.
Remember that if you need anyone to talk to, you can always IM me... ;) xnookypoo
Welcome to my world about a year and a few months ago, someone you wish you could just stop liking and make your life that much easier, only to realize that you might as well wish for wings while your at it.
In my experience, all you can do is try and stay strong then try and meet other people, wish there was some dramatic secret to it, but alas, there's not.
Remember tho, we all <3 you and we're here if you need us
Meg I'm your best friend and you know that I'm going to be straight up and honest with you. Don't succumb to the drink. You'd only be doing what you hate HIM doing. You wrote an entry a little bit ago about how he has a drinking problem and I don't want you to be the next one with that problem. There are other ways to deal with it besides drinking...like hanging out w/ your best friend! So call me up and we're doing something b/c I'm on Spring Break for two weeks...I'm here for you babe. Love you!
I don't know the whole situation I can look it up. From what I do know however, don't hate yourself and please don't start drinking.
"its not a switch you can turn on and off"
This is true, and its going to take time to forget em'. If this person was extreamly important to you in your life its going to be quite a while. The key is to not quit and not run from it. Liquor is only going to provide you momentary escape by way of intoxication, after that you've got the bill the issue is still there and it can create others. Besides you've got it in you do to this.
Talk to us, Talk to you friends and family, get out go walk, excercise something. Do a little someting productive everyday. Its going to take sometime, sorround yourself with family and friends and you'll get through this.
Well yet again I am late when it comes to commenting, so I apologize if I repeat anything :-P. But yeah...don't turn to drinking, it won't fix anything because when all is said and done, your just going to end up with the same problem. You'll get over this, all you need is a little time and strength (which I KNOW you have). All your friends are here for you, (myself included)so hang in there! Call me if you need anything!!
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him and stop liking him. People need to understand
that its not easy at all. I am going through the
same thing. I love Dion still and I can't forget
about him. I have met such a nice guy... but I
still miss Dion and in a way want to take him back
but I just can't... something holds me back.
We need to be strong... and people need to support
us in any decision we make.
Remember that if you need anyone to talk to, you
can always IM me... ;) xnookypoo
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Welcome to my world about a year and a few months ago, someone you wish you could just stop liking and make your life that much easier, only to realize that you might as well wish for wings while your at it.
In my experience, all you can do is try and stay strong then try and meet other people, wish there was some dramatic secret to it, but alas, there's not.
Remember tho, we all <3 you and we're here if you need us
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"its not a switch you can turn on and off"
This is true, and its going to take time to forget em'. If this person was extreamly important to you in your life its going to be quite a while. The key is to not quit and not run from it. Liquor is only going to provide you momentary escape by way of intoxication, after that you've got the bill the issue is still there and it can create others. Besides you've got it in you do to this.
Talk to us, Talk to you friends and family, get out go walk, excercise something. Do a little someting productive everyday. Its going to take sometime, sorround yourself with family and friends and you'll get through this.
Hugs and Best Wishes.
Stu-
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