The Moment you've all been waiting for....

[melifur]

OK, so my "date" on Friday.... Oh, you guys don't even know that yet... I called Chris (here known as IM Chris, due to the proliferance of Chris's in this journal) on Friday after work, and talked to him for awhile, and he was like, you should come to Redding (where he lives, like an hour away if you drive a Mustang) and see a show. I was like, you

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[another_butter]

Did you guys hang out here in town or go back to Redding? What did you do other not talk?

[melifur]

We stayed here in Chico~ and just drove around. Not lame on his part, I suggested it because I thought it would be a good way to talk without the loud ass music and college frenzy in the bars~ and it was already 10pm so no real restaurants open or anything.... maybe that's it. My lame ass idea of driving around, which I do for fun alot anyway. Basically, I'm confused because I can't read him. He's not telling whether he's enjoying talking to me or not, and that miffs me cause I'm a die hard romantic and I don't like that cool nonchalantness. ??????????? AHHHH!

[another_butter]

Next time go downtown to the Naked Lounge cafe. It's open until 1am or at least midnight.

[melifur]

Right on~ thanks! I don't know anywhere to go here that isn't infested with drunkards.

[katz170]

Dude, non-responsive men are the worst. For me I start babbling more and more frantic because I'm not getting a response and I don't know if it's going well or not. He could be shy, but did he seem shy? Ya know, fidgety and not looking directly at you...? Are you going to see him again?

And how short is he? Is he a midget? :D

And what does "solgier" mean? I couldn't find it in Webster.

[melifur]

It means I can't spell. lol No, he's not a midget, but he's almost as short as me. I don't think I'm going to see him again~ I might've, but I called him yesterday, and it was the same story, so whatever. Usually I would have been in the same boat as you, getting frantic, exactly~ but this time, I was like, ZEN, I don't know why.

[aditheforce]

WOW that's very interesting stuff and I see the hobbies haven't changed, hehehe, sorry I've been out in Wonderland but we really need to keep in touch, write me sometime and I'll reply ok, it's aditheforce@yahoo.com

ADI!!!!

[melifur]

You're back!!! I missed you!*yay!* So... tell me everything.... lol

Short Men Suck.....

[facetiousmuch]

I agree with Abby. I will never date a man under 6 ft tall ever again. I had previously dated guys from 5'7" to 5'11" and they were all horrible and boring and just plain bad news. Mr. Aaron the wonderful is 6'1" and I always liked taller guys anyways because I feel safe next to them, funny huh? Anyway, he might be better the second go around but overall short is not a good quality in a boyfriend type guy, but that is just my opinion. =)

Hugs,

Re: Short Men Suck.....

[melifur]

Well, I'm pretty short myself, and I like to be able to see my man's face through the clouds, so.... lol

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[onlywhenibreath]

I'm in a weird mood today but the way you describe him, he sounds like the lolipop kid from Wizard of Oz.

Anyway, I am sorry it didn't work out. Just remember that the guy you talked to online is part of him also so maybe your just meant to be chat buddies.

Take it easy!!

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[melifur]

LOL!!! No, no, not the lolipop kid, just not responsive. *laughing ny ass off* That's not very nice, Margie! That's true about the computer thing~ I actually don't have instant message capability here at work, so maybe I'll email him... *shrug* not that concerned about it.