I really didn't want to bring anything up to him, but I guess pain can make you do weird things. I was always one to keep my mouth shut, but I guess I finally got the courage. And now I'm glad I said something because things didn't end horribly like most of my "situations" do. I guess it's true that after being with someone a while they tend to grow on you, and this time it's not so bad. :) And I fully understand what you mean about the expectations. I hope you find the strength to deal with your situation, and I wish the best.
"I was getting hurt a lot, and it wasn't part of our original "deal." "
that sounds so familiar it hurts. im still in the situation mentally and cant get over it.. i really wish i possessed the strenth of character to stop thinking about it.. or do i? its been going on for a year in two weeks.. the original agreement was a casual one, one that worked for a while until things began to deepen... i didnt even realize my expectations were changing until they already had and it was too late.. i'm glad you could do something with your situation though, talk it over, whatever it takes.. maybe i'll finally get around to doing something with mine...
im sure there are differences but that statement said it all "im getting hurt and.. " sorry.. maybe you are on the other end of the stick this time but hate the person who was on the other end of mine so much that you cant see it.. just a thought.. 10000 incoherent lorraine points if you followed it...
i know EXACTLY what he'd do... he'd look up all calm and zen-like and say
"Kids, i know what will help! Let's go to the land of make-believe!" and as if to back him up on this trolley would appear from out of nowhere, tooting happily, ready to move us from aching reality.
<3 escapism <3
should start a yahoo group.. called Chris242: The Aftermath..
would be much more fun that subkultures.the aftermath...
hehe. I don't wanan think about the aftermath just yet.. my current situation is still pending, and I'd like to keep it that way for a while. Like I said in myother post, I don't want this to have to be another realtionship I'm going to have to survive.
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and we will see more of each other.
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Yoda is a wise man. ;)
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that sounds so familiar it hurts. im still in the situation mentally and cant get over it.. i really wish i possessed the strenth of character to stop thinking about it.. or do i? its been going on for a year in two weeks.. the original agreement was a casual one, one that worked for a while until things began to deepen... i didnt even realize my expectations were changing until they already had and it was too late.. i'm glad you could do something with your situation though, talk it over, whatever it takes.. maybe i'll finally get around to doing something with mine...
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I wish Mr. Rogers was my father.
I wish he was still alive.. He'd know what to do in the situation.
Maybe I just need to call my shrink. *sigh*
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and say
"Kids, i know what will help! Let's go to the land of make-believe!" and as if to back him up on this trolley would appear from out of nowhere, tooting happily, ready to move us from aching reality.
<3 escapism <3
should start a yahoo group.. called Chris242: The Aftermath..
would be much more fun that subkultures.the aftermath...
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I don't wanan think about the aftermath just yet.. my current situation is still pending, and I'd like to keep it that way for a while.
Like I said in myother post, I don't want this to have to be another realtionship I'm going to have to survive.
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Jumping the gun a bit, no?
doktor rule # 17... everybody sticks around until I say so.
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