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[melissasa]

Lately, I've been finding it hard to trust anyone. I've realized that there is a certain amount of trust someone puts into friendship. Not the sort of "I'm trusting you not to tell my deepest, darkest secrets", but a trust in the friendship itself. I've been wondering if my friends are my friends because they actually enjoy hanging out with me

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[egrog_rower]

good job, im proud of you melissa. you ahve finally come to that stage where you wont let people push you around. you ahve to stick up for yourself. congrats

[egrog_rower]

Maybe you should consider whether or not the person in question may be you.

[cows_to_the_wor]

There are two contrasting elements that I see in your situation.

a) It is amazing that you are smart enough to realize that your friends maybe taking advantage of you. Very few people ever have the intellegence, both emotionally and mentally to realize this and consciously realize this.

b) It is unfortunate that you feel like you have to question your friends motivations. I am sorry if I am one of those friends.

[cows_to_the_wor]

Although, if you analyze your average friendship, people are friends because they each have something to offer the other. It is a symbiotic relationship, whether it is support, or even jsut entertainment that is shared. It becomes a problem when the friendship become parasitic.

[kishamarie23]

You have every right to feel the way you do. Secrets are secrets for a reason. They aren't meant to be spread through others and they are not meant to be read aloud. So why do people persist on telling eachother personal facts of other people? You are absolutly right, you have to wonder if the reason people are hanging out with you is because of you, (or)something else. I'm glad you find the truth through your own eyes and not thrugh anyone else. Good on ya mate, good on ya.

"You can't shake hands with a clenched fist." - Ghandi

[zestoren_sie]

Blah all this. Stop questioning shit and just act. You've been saying for years, "I won't let people push me around this year" so finally do. Tell em' to fuck off, and your problems...What problems.
This isn't a stage my friend, this is enlightenment. To some people, it never happens.
I agree with 'anonymous'. It could/and probably is you. No blame shit, just that, yeah, some friends are fuckheads, but when it comes to the time when you just don't feel like dealing with fuckheads anymore...Deal.

AHHHHH!I HEART MELISSASA!!!!1!!!!

[zestoren_sie]

Isn't it just called "Stacked Actors"?
Jokinggg. only not really.
[grin]