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melix

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May 17, 2006 20:48

After 32 years, I still don't know who I am or what I want in the long run. Sure, I'm good at knowing what I want in the present. I know when I'm thirsty, sleepy, horny, etc. But, what do I want for me? And, how do I know if it's "right". I still don't know those things ( Read more... )

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7lifeuncommon7 May 18 2006, 01:43:15 UTC

I failed four subjects in total last year, mainly because I didn't want to pass. Or stopped believing that I could, that I deserved to, that I wanted to. I was also depressed so "self-sabotage" was a big factor. A lot of it was unpleasant to deal with. It wasn't easy to take a step back and watch it all crash and burn. In fact, I tore myself up as I did it and felt horrible the whole time and thereafter.

It's biting me in the butt now. I'm sick to death of study and delivering people their infernal pizzas. I want a real job with my degree. I would've been graduating in November and could've walked into one of several fulltime jobs immediately after. But alas... I have to study next year part-time as well. I guess what I'm saying is that if I'd dealt with the uncomfortableness of the immediate situation beforehand a lot better, I'd be in a better position now. The doctrine of delayed gratification and all that ( ... )

melix May 18 2006, 02:31:14 UTC

HOw does one go about finding a life coach?

7lifeuncommon7 May 18 2006, 10:47:24 UTC

Ah, funny you should ask, for I have that information in Tullier's book. It's not much use to me, considering I don't live in the US, but as you do...

Coach University Coach Referral Service
1-800-48COACH (I'm glad we don't have those lame numbers...)
www.coachu.com

The Coaches Training Institute Coaching Referral Service
1-800-691-6008
www.thecoaches.com

International Coach Federation
1-888-BEMYCOACH
www.coachfederation.org

They'll no doubt have a database of suitable people in your area that they can give you the details for. But, since you're a procrastinator, you'll likely put it off. So, ah, don't. :)

All the best!
LU

I have faith in you. drewfer June 26 2006, 13:22:35 UTC

This last push is just a small thing don't let it overwhelm you. Think about it from a future perspective, would you regret getting this close and giving up?