Comments | meljoi786: Why Me?

meljoi786

Why Me?

Feb 07, 2006 16:54

So there has been a bunch of shit between my Hope friends. I thought that drama was meant to be left in high school. Why am I the only one that sees that?! I dont understand why everyone cant calm down. Its all about housing for next year too. I feel like since I am the RA that gets to name the people who live in the apartment that I have the ( Read more... )

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dumblondee February 7 2006, 22:37:28 UTC

i have a piece of advice: come and live with me in these awesome apartments. haha. obviously they're in the wrong city :)

housing is a really difficult thing to figure out. some people want houses, some want apartments. some want it cheaper, some don't care. i totally understand your difficulty and i hope it all works out and you get an awesome house with good roommates!!

i don't even know if i can live offcampus yet, but i signed a lease for an apartment anyways haha.. good luck though!!!

Sorry.... rach1722 February 7 2006, 22:52:24 UTC

Hey Mel! Sorry to hear about it... I definately feel the same way sometimes... when people get mad over STUPID stuff and then won't talk about it? And then are mad at you for not talking to them... when in reality you DID but they IGNORED you? Definately been there plenty of times... you are doing the right things tho! Stay calm and pray about it! Loves!

jacana35 February 8 2006, 00:29:45 UTC

Don't let anyone tell you who should live there. Its your decision, since its your position--don't let ANYONE abuse you for it. Believe me, it will make for a bad living environment next year. Very generic advice, obviously, since I don't know anything about the situation. But if you ever want to get together and talk, I am wise in the ways of Res Life and housing, and I want my favorite Dykstra RA to be happy next year.

...what apartments did you get??!

meljoi786 February 8 2006, 15:41:42 UTC

Hey Meg, I got VanderBorgh. 2-4 person apts. Thing is is that most likely the other half will be guys. so some friends are getting hyped up b/c we all have to split up. karla being the main problem (for me atleast). (im glad no one in my group of friends does livejournal :) haha) so i decided that she and i need to do lunch tomorrow. i feel like if we dont, we will be on very thin ice for the rest of our years at Hope. i have never had shit with someone like this. i hate it. but sadly, i wont be hurt if i lose her as a friend. is that wrong? lol. well....its just crummy. but know that i promised myself that i wont be hoodwinked. i am not going to have a crappy house. i wont.

on the other hand--thanks for being a pal. you are my favorite cottage RA :) much love!

lindybess February 8 2006, 05:14:41 UTC

I second Meg. It's a hard decision, but seriously, you deserve to choose who you're going to live with because you went through all the other RA stuff. I say: do what will be good for you and whoever you pick, and let the cards fall where they may. You cant be responsible for everyone else and where they live. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down for the good of everyone. Keep your head high girl, YOU WILL MAKE IT! And anyone who hates you because of your housing decisions is not worthy to be your friend.