In Memoriam: KD Wentworth

[meltatum]

Last week I was shocked when I signed on to Facebook and saw a post by Scott Cupp stating that KD Wentworth had died. Kathy was a complicated person who at her core cared deeply about helping people and she will be missed

Comments

[sf_reader]

I'm so sorry to learn of the gap the grown between you. I hadn't realized it had happened.

I couldn't help thinking of you when I was remembering good times with Kathy in the past few days.

[e_moon60]

When I saw the notice, I immediately thought of you; I knew it would be tough for you. It was a tragic (to my eyes) situation, in which two honorable people simply could not find a place in which to be together. I have wondered, whenever I thought of it, what kind of trauma must have created such an aversion to confrontation in her...and how difficult that must have made her life, given that nobody gets through this vale without obstacles...and how difficult that her aversion made the lives of those who needed her to stay connected even in difficulty.

No answers, but sympathy for all who loved her and miss her, whatever the circumstances.

[sf_reader]

I can understand a strong adverion to confrontation when it is with a loved one.

I grew up never seeing conflict among family. Never.

The adversion was a real issue in my first marriage. Less so now, as I am working on it, but it is still a problem.

[alfreda89]

Beautifully said. I believe we go around several times, and second chances happen in other places. May it truly be so.