too bad your beautiful

[mendedwing]

i cant stop thinking about the subject of respect and judgement. i dont know why everyone assumes that we arent supposed to judge people. no you are not supposed to "judge" them meaning condemn them or think that you are better than them. but you are supposed to judge them based on character, and habits. you ahve to decide based on those

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[armioq]

good point madison, you really are the coolest sister ever.

[mendedwing]

thanks bub your the best too

[geekyshoelaces]

agreed

[ammonator]

good @#*$% point!
i gotta critique "not supposed to "judge" them meaning condemn them or think that you are better than them. but you are supposed to judge them based on character, and habits" - of coarse i could be wrong but doesnt this comflict with itself a bit
isn't life so complicted, not only do you have to choose what to do but who to hang out with when they chose what to do ~ i always thought it was more simple than that.
i love you madi, oh and if you didn't catch it the first time i mentioned it, i quit "dealing" so i hope you'll think better of me... though i am curious to find out how you found out in the first place

[mendedwing]

yes you are totally right. but something that overlooked alot is that you cant just be with people who are doing things that agree with your standards only when you are with them. character, morality, etc is a 24/7 thing. i know you stopped dealing ammon. i think that is great. i dont even remember how i knew but ive known for forever. honestly though, as for the whole "loving me" thing. i have never heard one not negative or even nice thing that you have had to say about me. and when i have mentioned that i didnt think you liked me, it was confirmed by those around me. i dont think little or less of you at all ammon. jsut because i dont agree with everything someone does does not mean that i think they are a bad person at all. good people do bad things all the time, including me. i am a hypocrite when it comes to what i preach all the time and that happens because im human and i know that. i want the best for you truly and i think you deserve it.

[ammonator]

i will admit i've been quite the ass hole. madi i apologize for being so spiteful, i really do appretiate you and i admit when i used the term "love" it was in sarcasm because everyone seems to bury their feelings behind the phase "i love you." you are a very wise and loving person. i can tell that you stuggle alot between loving people and accepting people. the only reason you ever got on my nerves was for that very thing. i just want to hear your "hey ammon, how are you doing" phrase and not feel guilty. my problems are between me and God so try to accept me as a sinner and not someone from the "bad croud" so to speak. i, for some sad and unknown reason, stopped carring about morals and rules. but i have the upmost respect for those that did not trip over the same rock as i did. i respect you madi much more than you know, so dont ever change.
sincerly AMMONATOR