Looking at yourself is good! I don't know, I tend to do a lot of self-reflecting but that's the only way I comfort myself and know what I need to do to better.
You shouldn't be afraid of what's really there, we all have our dark sides :( But friends will always accept friends no matter what!
I also understanding the thing about liking many things, but not really loving any of them. This happens to me a lot.
I know exactly how you feel sometimes. I like a lot of things, but there really isn't anything that I love. I haven't even chosen a major yet (and I'll need to apply for a CSU or UC soon so I can transfer next fall!) because I like a few things, but I'm not sure if I really -love- anything enough to choose it. Same with clothes, it's like my tastes are all over the place, constantly shifting, or unobtainable.
I don't think that you should force yourself to try to love something if you only like it. Don't be too stubborn about how you have to love something even if you don't like it, or even be stubborn about how you have to have something that you love, because you'll find something eventually, but in the meantime, you don't -truly- need it.
I can help you get better at sewing, if you like. :D
ooo, i'm the same way. i have lots of things i want to learn, but can't quite focus on one.
i think a bit of restlessness and impatience are a trait for us sagittarius people (boooo). for piano, just pick a song you really love and start learning that. it'll at least help with keeping your butt on the piano bench for a while (i'm trying to do the same with guitar). or take actual lessons as a way to be more disciplined in learning.
and you don't need to feel pressure about finding the "right lolita style". many styles are neat, so just wear what you like ^^.
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You shouldn't be afraid of what's really there, we all have our dark sides :( But friends will always accept friends no matter what!
I also understanding the thing about liking many things, but not really loving any of them. This happens to me a lot.
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I don't think that you should force yourself to try to love something if you only like it. Don't be too stubborn about how you have to love something even if you don't like it, or even be stubborn about how you have to have something that you love, because you'll find something eventually, but in the meantime, you don't -truly- need it.
I can help you get better at sewing, if you like. :D
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i think a bit of restlessness and impatience are a trait for us sagittarius people (boooo). for piano, just pick a song you really love and start learning that. it'll at least help with keeping your butt on the piano bench for a while (i'm trying to do the same with guitar). or take actual lessons as a way to be more disciplined in learning.
and you don't need to feel pressure about finding the "right lolita style". many styles are neat, so just wear what you like ^^.
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