Wondering

[merlik]

I don't think I make Taylor happy anymore. Last night I sent her an email telling her how much I miss her, and in response she sent me something telling me how sad she is. She's afraid to tell me things because she's afraid that I'll just make her feel sad about them. What kind of guy makes the girl he's dating concerned about things that make

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[dea_aniada]

*hugs*

let's see...

[byrdclaw]

Okay, I had to go back and read some of your posts, then read some of her posts, just so I could understand a little bit. However, I still don't quite understand the exact cause of Taylor's sadness. She says that she doesn't want to tell you things because you'll only make her sad. Does this mean sad as in sad, or sad as in upset? I can't specifically remember any time when I couldn't cheer Julia up, and she usually wants to discuss every issue with me. If Taylor can't feel open with you then you can't really have a relationship (vice versa too). There have been times when maybe Julia and I haven't communicated as much as we should and we'll end up getting really pissed off at each other, then sit down and talk for 4 hours and sort everything out and then the world is a better place. As far as I can tell, just be open and let her know that you're there for when she wants to feel open too