alcoholism is a progressive disease. I'm not surprised that J isn't the same person you fell in love with 8 years ago. please, please, please go to al-anon yourself. you have to change as well if you want to have the relationship you desire. I will keep the candles lit and prayers going. I feel for both of you. many alcoholics lose many relationships in their steady progression down. you must resolve to live each day as it comes, no expectations. expectations will destroy you if you buy into them. good luck with it, my dear.
xoxox. thoughts with you that I'm not willing to say on an unlocked post. Just know that addiction is a disease. It doesn't mean you have to tolerate it, but he has little control over his betrayal. Whether you will stay when you have all of the information is the question. Luck and love to you.
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I will keep the candles lit and prayers going. I feel for both of you. many alcoholics lose many relationships in their steady progression down.
you must resolve to live each day as it comes, no expectations. expectations will destroy you if you buy into them.
good luck with it, my dear.
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I'll work on the expectations.
Thanks for the help and the prayers.
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thoughts with you that I'm not willing to say on an unlocked post. Just know that addiction is a disease. It doesn't mean you have to tolerate it, but he has little control over his betrayal. Whether you will stay when you have all of the information is the question. Luck and love to you.
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