I hate to break a nice 4 year record, but FUCK I AM KIND OF PISSED OFF. I don't even know why I'm doing this, and I'm sure nobody will read it
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If she "forgets", then I don't think it's worth going after her. When I wasn't officially dating matt, he asked me out a couple of times, and i NEVER forgot... or she might've truly forgotten, and, if that's the case, be prepared for a very forgetful girl, in every aspect of the relationship.
...Be more forceful, pretend you're confident! Girls like guys who are sure of themselves. Be wary though, there's a VERY fine line between arrogant and knowing one's 'self-worth'.. very fine... either way, confidence will definitely give you a wider selection of girls to weed through. ... also, appealing to their 'better nature' (establishing yourself as a reliable, sensitive, close friend) can, with patience, get you a good girl that way too. Don't focus too much on looks either, they can get you into trouble. When I look for a nice guy to date, yeah ok I'm definitely attracted to them physically, but I would NEVER tell them I liked them unless I was absolutely sure they weren't a jerk-off
PS hope that helps a lil', and don't get too angry... especially if she really did honestly forget. That's definitely a turn-off. Guys with temper = bad.
Ah. That explains it. I was wondering "How the hell did I rack up THREE comments?! That'd be one from everybody I know on LiveJournal!" ... Or all of them could be Sammi.
I'm pretty sure she genuinely forgot. She remembered pretty much the moment she saw me, and apologized quite profusely. Oddly enough, I wasn't angry at the time. "It's alright, it's alright" et cetera. Well what the hell else would I say to a girl I like? "It's not okay"? Men cannot get away with saying that.
I don't know why it was a delayed reaction, but I didn't start getting angry until I left her presence, after trying (and failing) to set up another time to meet her. Sleeping through my depression helped a lot.
I pretty much know what I'm going to do about the situation. It should work out pretty well.
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or she might've truly forgotten, and, if that's the case, be prepared for a very forgetful girl, in every aspect of the relationship.
...Be more forceful, pretend you're confident! Girls like guys who are sure of themselves. Be wary though, there's a VERY fine line between arrogant and knowing one's 'self-worth'.. very fine...
either way, confidence will definitely give you a wider selection of girls to weed through.
... also, appealing to their 'better nature' (establishing yourself as a reliable, sensitive, close friend) can, with patience, get you a good girl that way too. Don't focus too much on looks either, they can get you into trouble. When I look for a nice guy to date, yeah ok I'm definitely attracted to them physically, but I would NEVER tell them I liked them unless I was absolutely sure they weren't a jerk-off
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... Or all of them could be Sammi.
I'm pretty sure she genuinely forgot. She remembered pretty much the moment she saw me, and apologized quite profusely. Oddly enough, I wasn't angry at the time. "It's alright, it's alright" et cetera.
Well what the hell else would I say to a girl I like? "It's not okay"? Men cannot get away with saying that.
I don't know why it was a delayed reaction, but I didn't start getting angry until I left her presence, after trying (and failing) to set up another time to meet her. Sleeping through my depression helped a lot.
I pretty much know what I'm going to do about the situation. It should work out pretty well.
Unless it doesn't.
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