I think that's extremely mature of you. It's something not everyone could do for sure. Keep your head up like that and keep on going. It's a very admirable quality and will surely help you in many walks of life.
I do hope things work out with AnthroPuppy. It seems hard for somebody to stay angry at someone as nice as you :p
Obviously I've only heard your side of it so I can't really be impartial. Only you know whether there was any justification for the way he behaved. All I want to say is, don't feel you have to accept responsibility for something that wasn't your fault, just for the sake of a quiet life.
While there ARE two sides to every issue, there's nothing wrong with stating that you feel you received worse treatment than you gave. In particular, you are NOT required to tell your roommate when you are seeing someone else. You're not required to tell your partner, even, when you have feelings for someone else. It's not exactly as if you can CHOOSE to feel a certain way about someone. So long as outright lying is not part of the picture, how you feel about anything is entirely your business.
By all means admit anything you did do wrong, but please don't beat yourself up and accept responsibility for what you didn't.
I don't understand how I could've hurt you? And if I did then it really wasn't my intent. If I hurt you and you believe that these things should be kept between you and myself, why go online and publicly announce that I have hurt you?
This purely repeats another comments reply,There is nothing new "publically". It does not open detail,
And you do not see how you could've hurt me? well. whats done is done isnt it. I've learnt from that. I won't go into detail as its private for a journal. But I just want to have learnt from it now and move on, I've moved back as you know I have a new job which i start in the morning. So Im trying very hard to find the strength to start again. If you want to discuss details then contact me but I dont think its necessary as i think you know how.
Just hope we can get on with our lives and in time perhaps build a friendship.
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I do hope things work out with AnthroPuppy. It seems hard for somebody to stay angry at someone as nice as you :p
Be well, Mhisani.
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What makes you think I am angry in any shape or form? Mhisani hasn't said I'm angry so i'm curious where you got it from.
I'm not angry at anyone for what's happened. Upset maybe, but never angry.
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While there ARE two sides to every issue, there's nothing wrong with stating that you feel you received worse treatment than you gave. In particular, you are NOT required to tell your roommate when you are seeing someone else. You're not required to tell your partner, even, when you have feelings for someone else. It's not exactly as if you can CHOOSE to feel a certain way about someone. So long as outright lying is not part of the picture, how you feel about anything is entirely your business.
By all means admit anything you did do wrong, but please don't beat yourself up and accept responsibility for what you didn't.
*lotsahugs*
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And you do not see how you could've hurt me? well. whats done is done isnt it. I've learnt from that. I won't go into detail as its private for a journal. But
I just want to have learnt from it now and move on, I've moved back as you know I have a new job which i start in the morning. So Im trying very hard to find the strength to start again. If you want to discuss details then contact me but I dont think its necessary as i think you know how.
Just hope we can get on with our lives and in time perhaps build a friendship.
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