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michanchan

Hopeful.Dreams.Shattered.Into.Teardrop.Fragments

Oct 19, 2009 01:00

It wasn't easy. It never is. It plagued my mind for so long and it might have been a point in life where I have to realize that there's something I need to do for myself... for once ( Read more... )

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s0nified October 19 2009, 06:08:26 UTC

stay strong.

genki_uhinagiku October 19 2009, 12:02:59 UTC

I read a quote the other day, I didn't think too much of it until now:

"We don't go through life looking for ourselves, we go through life creating ourselves."

I don't know if that's something you need to hear right now, but when I feel really upset and that light isn't shining in my life, my purpose feels empty. Hearing that let's me know, that despite troubles and heartache, I'm going to be the one that creates the person I am before everyone, so I have to be strong.

I've never been in a relationship, or have I seen an example of a good one from my parents, but I know the heartache of losing a friend that you've given a piece of your heart too. I think that runs hand-in-hand. If you have that feeling, where you know that you're going to grow more, than it's for the best, even if it hurts.

Know that I'm praying for your path to be as easy as possible to walk, while your heart is hurting.

<3

miaka2u October 19 2009, 14:58:00 UTC

I hope yo guys talked about this and made this decision together.

If not, it sounds like you really did do what's best for you, and to that I do applaud you. This sounds like the right choice for you. Sometimes we forget that life is short and happiness is had to come by. Pleasing others to a certain degree is alright, but there is a voice inside us that tells us what WE need to do for OURSELVES.

Heartache is tough. I'm sorry that your feeling like you are and I can only pray it gets better soon. Work on bettering yourself in the meantime! I know you can do it!!!

gothic_lolita October 19 2009, 17:19:32 UTC

*hugs* I will support you no matter what you decide to do in the end. Just take care OK?

elfzephlynhuntd October 19 2009, 18:05:23 UTC

I've been going with the flow as much as I can. Looking forward to every day we have and going from there. I've never been married either so its a learning experience. Just like the experience we had just over a year ago.

I just hope you get better experiences than those you had with me..