day was bad, then good, then bad

Dec 08, 2003 00:52

so i worked all day today ridiculous, 11 to 6. not to mention i was up all night last night typing my paper, could've went to bed earlier but i was talking to linds and put work off for about 3 hours cause im a good boyfriend like that. after work i went to see linds and we went to nicoles cause it was her birthday and her boyfriend was over. i had ( Read more... )

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wow anonymous December 7 2003, 22:20:07 UTC
Ry if you cant be yourself this girl has some issues. If you love her shes gotta understand the quote:

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind

if not shes not worth the trouble.
Keep the head up bro cause u always know that your true "friends" will aways be there for you

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From one roomate to another... anonymous December 7 2003, 23:05:37 UTC
Dude you have nothing to be upset about because you are doing everything right by this girl. Nothing great is achieved without a certain degree of risk. She's not emotionally ready to lay it on the line for you. The only answer is to try to move on, and maybe one day she'll be ready. You want a relationship and it seems like she is interested in just having a really great friend that she can kiss. There is really nothing wrong with that, but if you both want different things then its not going to work. You can't make someone ready to be in a relationship, it's something they have to figure out on their own. This is a hard answer to hear, but I do believe it is the right one.

PS Yeah, I know I'm a hypocrite...I never said do what I do, I said do what I say lol

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anonymous December 7 2003, 23:10:44 UTC
Ryan, I wish there were words I could write or say to make u feel better but in this type of situation I know that the only thing you want is that person to come to you and say all the things you have longed to hear. I mean as a girl I know we are confusing and difficult creatures but give her time to figure out herself and what she wants. If it is meant to be then she will realize how you have changed and how much you care about her and she will allow herself to open up to you because that's what you deserve. I guess you have to find that happy median which is probably impossible to find, but did you ever think she is doing this to you to see how she truly wants things to be. She probably is just as lost as you are and she doesn't know if she wants to go slow or fast. If only I could tell you what to do, but it's just not possible and the only way you will get your answer is through time even though it is one of the most painful things. If she doesn't realize how much you mean to her then she isn't worth your time but hopefully she ( ... )

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Back again just wanted to add some more anonymous December 7 2003, 23:31:48 UTC
Know that you have done all you could and now it's up to her to make a move. Believe me when I say the process of waiting is the worst thing in the world but it's just one of those things you have to go through which sucks big time. Not to be all emotional and all but letting out your feelings and taking a risk was the best thing you could have done because the last thing you want is to live in regret so you did the right thing. With all great gifts leads to some consequence you don't want, but in the end those consequences are what you learn from and that's what experiencing life and love is about. Pain brings happiness in the long run. Hope is sometimes the only thing we can have.

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seecoliego December 8 2003, 01:38:13 UTC
mmk so i know im the last person you wanna hear from , and i know that you kinda hate "mmk." so do i, but i can't stop. this is difficult. what people said is...i dunno..not the way i saw things last night. i enjoyed seeing you both really happy and taking pictures. but yea me and her have both been shitted on, and so has almost everyone else. i personally loved the fact that i caught almost everyone of my bfs cheating on me in like front of me. like i didn't exist. so yea i've got issues about trust and boys, but time is everything. everyone's life is complicated, and even more so in that one person's eyes. she's going through things and making a transition into the person she might want to be and the scholar she soon knows she has to be. we're busy, and fussy, and that's what makes us "us," and fun, and fight a lot. but it's worth it. you'll see. i already put my 2 sense in on her side. i said this was hard even for me to input on. cos it is. but i say try, cos you've both got nothing to loose except each other as significants ( ... )

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anonymous December 8 2003, 20:33:16 UTC
da gurl iz stewpid mebe she has herpes + its afektin her brain

ill giv u head

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anonymous December 10 2003, 07:10:42 UTC
you're a sick fuck...

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