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midnight_rayven

Thank God for Xanax

Mar 15, 2005 23:53

Today has been another "blah" day. First off, it was over-cast and cold. Not a great way to start the day. I slept in...which was okay. Then had to get out of bed to go tan....the room was freakin' cold as ice, as was the tanning bed. So, I ended up colder than when I came in. Spent the next few hours napping as both my children have a life ( Read more... )

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nightmaven March 16 2005, 09:33:05 UTC

I love you--so please take this with that in mind. Your kids and significant others simply have NOT been taught that there are times when they MUST--REPEAT MUST be absolutely RESPECTFUL of others and their own personal time. I know that this is extremely difficult to set--but it HAS to be done, because: 1. in the short term you will go nutz and increasingly frustrated and angry which will lead to .... 2. your relationship with your children will suffer in the long run.

You MUST sit them down and look them in the eye and tell them that they MUST respect your privacy and "down time" when you need it.

believe you me, that WILL NOT happen when I am in the bathroom or tub. The first time someone comes bursting in on me like that, much less keeps on trying to do it, and won't listen to me, or respect me, when I say no, will hear the words "GET THE #$%& OUTTA HERE!!" in every dialect, of every tongue, of every language on earth until they get the point ( ... )

In the children's defense... midnight_rayven March 17 2005, 03:35:27 UTC

There is a lock on the door, but due to matters I will not discuss here, I had to leave it unlocked. Therefore, they came in. Also, in their defense...there is only one bathroom and I do tend to soak in the tub for hours. So...compromise is the name of the game. And I still love you too! <3<3<3 Hugs & Kisses..
The MidNight Rayven