Hypothetically speaking, of course...

[miffmuffin]

What do you do when you miss someone so much, but it hurts to even talk to them, let alone see them in person and spend time with them?

(That isn't a rhetorical question)

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[spin_7]

um well kara, i guess i am sort of an authority here...i went the wrong way after my separation and tried to latch on. from personal experience i think it is almost best to give yourself some breathing room for a little while. after that it will e easier to go back and talk to him. it took me a long time to come to a point where i could be comfortable with kristin after we broke up, and by trying to rekindle things after the fact i made it harder on myself. my advice, is to just take a break, but afterwards do try to remain friends. i can be thankful that kristin is one of my best friends still.

[spin_7]

oh and to clarify, i am not implying that you would be trying to rekindle anything, that was my situation. i simply think that distance is the best thing now.

[miffmuffin]

That's what my brain tells me, but I miss him SO much, and I just want to cry to him and tell him everything like I used to, you know?

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[spin_7]

yeah i know what you mean, but if you really want to be friends with him you will probably be able to later on. i know its hard now, but kristin is my confidant now, and it was super hard for me when we broke up.