LIfe Fucking Sucks!!

[mightyjuju]

Yeah we are getting a divorce. Even tho I really don't want one. And I bet he doesn't really want one either. We just can't live together. I resent him too much and he just doesn't care. He is too self absorbed to worry about anything other than where his next beer is coming from.

This hurts more than anything.

Comments

[mkatona]

Maybe just seperate first? Depends on how much you care..?

[mightyjuju]

I think I care a lot...not sure how much he cares. I told him last night that after the bankruptcy goes thru he has to move because I wont be able to get an apartment with bankruptcy. He goes...OK

[mkatona]

OK, but you better reassure him that you STILL want to be with him.. You can be in a relationship and not around each other that much.. It still works if you both care..

If you think, then you're right.. You need time to reassest your feelings. But you know us men.. we'll still need the snatch and/or some hard core words to make us feel wanted.. there is nothing worst then a man who feels worthless. :)

[mightyjuju]

I totally agree with you about what the men need. I really really do not want him to feel worthless but how am I sposed to feel like giving up the nookie when he is drunk all the time and screaming at everyone?

I know he cares too and I have told him that I don't want a divorce. But I have to think about what my kids have to go thru. He has to change or we can't stay together even if we still care about each other. It so stupid. I know he loves me and I love him. Why can't he just be a man and do what he has to do. I know that sounds horrible but shit....he has to think of someone else other than himself sometimes.