Comments | mightymouse315: Stalker in the making?

mightymouse315

Stalker in the making?

Jul 24, 2005 21:49

I had another fight with Erik this morning, it basically culminating in him calling me a slut and wanting to know why I did this, what did he do to deserve it. (That's the very short version.) He wound up hanging up, saying he would call me right back, but I couldn't take anymore of him, so I turned off my phone. I cried for three hours straight, ( Read more... )

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what to say... theseareme July 25 2005, 03:04:51 UTC

At this point i don't really think Erik will go that far.. let's hope not.. but i really just think he's upset and irrational at the moment. There will probably be an even bigger inevitable fight and then maybe it'll be done. I'm usually right about these things.
*sighs*.. i don't like the idea of more arguments though. Who knows.. if i can work it out then maybe i can make it so i visit sooner than later, huh? Just in case you need some extra support...

Re: what to say... mightymouse315 July 26 2005, 12:53:26 UTC

I'll be ok. Just your support here, everyone's support, is enough to keep me going.

Re: what to say... theseareme July 27 2005, 00:21:25 UTC

I certainly hope so.
Still i'd rather support you from there next to you than from here, ya know? Plus.. i'm about due for a visit by now, don'tcha think? lol

-huggles- kurious_kitsune July 25 2005, 18:20:58 UTC

I think you just need to tell Erik point blank that you are searching and changing. You are dating different people and learning things along the way...ask him how he knows that YOU are definitely the one for him without him experiencing other people and other women. Just tell him that you need time...and if you have to, tell him that you need to cut off communication with him while you enjoy your youth instead of worrying and being sad all the time. I stopped talking to Chris for the summer...maybe you just need to tell Erik to not communicate with you for a few months and let him cool and and let you get yourself together. Breaking up is hard to do...Chris was hurt just like Erik was and he did the same thing...called me names and whatnot. You just need to make him understand that it's your life...and you can do anything with it. I know it hurts you and him, but it's for the best. -smiles sadly- I know...first hand experience remember? Love you sister. Cheer up...it hurts him now. But he will thank you for it later after he gets ( ... )

Re: -huggles- mightymouse315 July 26 2005, 12:51:59 UTC

You know, you are probably the one person who makes the most sense in my life. I love you sissor!

indigodaisy July 26 2005, 01:46:26 UTC

he probably is going through the angry stage of a break up .. my friend says their is 4 stages
1. hurt
2. anger
3. bitterness
4. acceptance
You are a wonderful person and I love you dearly. Please understand that everything happens for a reason .. stephen seems to be your happiness and for that i am so happy for you.

mightymouse315 July 26 2005, 12:52:23 UTC

Thanks meg-san, that really means a lot to me.

sparklycactus July 26 2005, 02:45:43 UTC

remember you'll be rooming with me. i got your back if you need it. not that i don't think you can't handle anything or anything i just want you to know i got you. luvvies!

mightymouse315 July 26 2005, 12:52:48 UTC

And we will kick anyones ass who tries to mess with us!