concerned and not busy

[mihoshi_chan]

I think being seperated from brandon is finally taking its toll on us. The past two or three days that i've called him he's A- in a bad mood and B- I seem to make it worst. I can understand about him being upset over somethings (like seeing star wars with guys he hasnt met) but even before that and during that it seems everytime that I try to make

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[prince_rose]

I'm saying this deep-down from my heart, and with personal experience as my back-up, but Moshi you cannot control the actions of others. We may love a person with every fiber of our being... but we can never dictate their actions. Having said that, this situation is not your fault. You've done everything within human power to help him, but there's only so much you can do. You're not a "bad girlfriend," and equally, you are not some kind of god. You are human. The only thing that you can give him is your support, and your love... and whether he choses to take this or not is his decision. But you also know, that sometimes all the love and support in the world cannot do a thing for a person when they're down. It seems as though he needs to figure out things for himself. Let him know that you are there for him, that you care for him... but don't let him bring you down into his despair and anguish. Brandon is a great guy, but not him, nor anyone else, in this world is worth you feeling bad about yourself for circumstances that are out of

[mihoshi_chan]

He isn't really controling. I know that he's self essteem and emotions is what causes his moodswings. He just isn't use to having someone to care about him and to talk to about things. And everything is fine now and we are working on this together. I'll try harder to not blame myself as much but I'm also not going to let him go through his issues alone. We both have things to work on and we will work through them together. I love him like no other(like I've said a thousand times) So I'm going to do my best to make his life better, no matter where i am. Thanks for the comments and for your support kat.