I will never in my life understand why they always say they want better, when what they really want is to be treated like shit. Why don't they at least tell the truth? "I say I want a nice guy, but I'm really far more comfortable with someone who beats me and tells me I'm worthless."
I love being the man I really am, but women just don't go for it. I actually have to resort to being a dick to get anywhere. It's not worth it anymore. If I'm not loved for who I am, I don't want to be loved at all.
Remember the words of Whispering Wind: "Women...are trouble."
Women seek...the bad guy, the excitement, the best sex they'll ever have(at least that's what they think- until they have it with a REAL man), and the ability to reject a guy when and where they please because, let's face it, he's a bad guy...everybody says so. No one will think ill of me if I leave him, hey, they'll probably help me pack. Sorry, girls. I don't mean to give away the "familysecret" so to speak, but Come On! This is ridiculous!! Our society glorifies the womanizer as romantic, projects the wife-beater as "manly" and tells young women this is what they are searching for. It takes most women ALONG time to realize that this is BULLSHIT!!
So, Irvan to answer your question...the girls you are meeting have not yet reached the point wherein they realize that this type of guy is not the end-all be-all and searching for a fulfilling relationship has not yet taken priority. Don't worry- they will...after they'are emotionally scarred and need resuscitation to just get by. bottom line- they haven't as of yet grown up.
Not all women are attracted to those kinds of men. I think the majority who do are interested in the "Bad boy" ideal that Hollywood dishes out to women all the time. In the movies and books, the young woman, no matter how attractive, always melts the heart of the "bad ass" and gets him to change his ways. I think many women are buried in that ideal. Me however, I am attracted to several key elements that make up a man: his intelligence, his confidence, his outgoingness (even though that is not technically a word), his kindness, his honesty, religious views (values), and...well to be quite honest his smile teeth, and good grooming (not tidy, just hygienic rofl).
I know a lot of girls that have these standards, we are a minority, yes, but hey, at least you know there is hope, you just have to search a little harder sometimes to find just the right one ^_~
Lol, now my question is, why are most guys attracted to the girls that are dim, controlling, hateful, and just happen to have a size D rack. =P
Not all of us are. I prefer a woman of learning, someone I can carry on a conversation with and not feel like I'm talking to a three-year-old. I like women who possess natural beauty; skinny is fine. chubby is fine. as long as they're really beautiful (not "hot", not "zomghawt", not "damn, i'd nail her", but really really beautiful, inside and out), it doesn't really much matter, as long as they're natural and honest.
Trust me. I've had my fill of large-breasted dippy bitches. If I have to explain "Who's on First?" one more g-ddamn time, I'm gonna scream.
Re: Answermikael_weirynJanuary 16 2007, 09:31:59 UTC
It's sad, but true: a lot of men are attracted to the big breasted bimbos. Methinks the reasoning behind that is that these girls are "easy", and that the guys can "get what they want from them". Which is another meaningless night of lustful happenings.
Another reason is there are guys out there desperate for attention. These are the ones that the controlling and hateful of the female gender target...because then they can get everything they've ever wanted from these desperate gents...to the point of running these guys into bankruptcy.
One of my friends told gave me an interesting response. Women know they are getting an asshole when they started to date an asshole. With a nice guy, they are afraid of what they will get because of what he "could" be hiding.
But the same is true with guys, they will look over a girl if she is too nice in preference for the bitch. Or at least that is my opinion, since the bitch who will cheat keeps having a line of guys that will lick her feet until she gets bored with them.
That whole phrase should be changed to "People are stupid". Because it's not just boys who are dumb...the gals make the same damn mistakes. In general, people are stupid.
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I will never in my life understand why they always say they want better, when what they really want is to be treated like shit. Why don't they at least tell the truth? "I say I want a nice guy, but I'm really far more comfortable with someone who beats me and tells me I'm worthless."
I love being the man I really am, but women just don't go for it. I actually have to resort to being a dick to get anywhere. It's not worth it anymore. If I'm not loved for who I am, I don't want to be loved at all.
Remember the words of Whispering Wind: "Women...are trouble."
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So, Irvan to answer your question...the girls you are meeting have not yet reached the point wherein they realize that this type of guy is not the end-all be-all and searching for a fulfilling relationship has not yet taken priority. Don't worry- they will...after they'are emotionally scarred and need resuscitation to just get by. bottom line- they haven't as of yet grown up.
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I know a lot of girls that have these standards, we are a minority, yes, but hey, at least you know there is hope, you just have to search a little harder sometimes to find just the right one ^_~
Lol, now my question is, why are most guys attracted to the girls that are dim, controlling, hateful, and just happen to have a size D rack. =P
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Trust me. I've had my fill of large-breasted dippy bitches. If I have to explain "Who's on First?" one more g-ddamn time, I'm gonna scream.
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Another reason is there are guys out there desperate for attention. These are the ones that the controlling and hateful of the female gender target...because then they can get everything they've ever wanted from these desperate gents...to the point of running these guys into bankruptcy.
I dunno...it's a good question either way. ^_^
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But the same is true with guys, they will look over a girl if she is too nice in preference for the bitch. Or at least that is my opinion, since the bitch who will cheat keeps having a line of guys that will lick her feet until she gets bored with them.
just saying. boys are dumb, girls are evil
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