It’s sad that the people who go out trying to save the world by helping one person at a time will never realize that they are in fact the ones who need the most help
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What's the point of being upset with someone and expressing your opinion about their lives when you know that they won't listen and it's a waste of time? To prove you're a friend? If you haven't yet, you never will. Understand as a 'friend', they are doing what they want no matter what you say, respect it, keep it to yourself and shut up.
And not everyone is worth fighting for. Some people deserve nothing else other than to die a horrible, painful death. The others...well, that's just a waste of time.
It's all well and good to be honest and open with others in a relationship but if you've done it in the past and it didn't get through to them and they've told you over and over to leave them alone and you still don't, that's not being a good friend, it's being a pain in the ass. It's being obnoxious. Do we really need someone reminding us if we're fucking up? No. Guess what. The people who are fucking up their lives, most of them know it but just don't want to admit it. We're all grown ups here. I don't need a fucking babysitter. Most importantly, if I'm fucking up my life, that's my problem, not yours or anyone elses. If you choose to make it your problem, well, that's your choice. I could care less. I don't need anyone telling me what I'm doing wrong or that I need to fix anything. I know what I'm doing. If I think it needs to be fixed it will be. But it will change for me, not for you or anyone else
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As a person who tries to guide, help, and advise people for a living... I am going to have to disagree with you on this one.
But, what really got me was that you think people who try to help others or their friends are somehow trying to "save the world" or something of that sort. I don't think that is always the case... I am not on some noble quest when I try to help I am just trying to help. I don't know, I guess some people who help just want to be saints... Maybe "those" type of helpers are the problem.
OK. Don't know what I am talking about anymore. But, believe me, if I knew you in real life we would discuss this more.
When I'm dead, six feet underground, you can look at my casket and say, "I told you so, asshole". Until then, keep your mouths shut and let me kill myself. I never asked nor cared what you thought of me.....
Alisha, you and I both know, when I'm six feet underground, it won't be for "no reason". You dont' want to admit it, but you know it's true.
Until then...live your lives and leave me the fuck alone. I'm starting to get real tired of this, "Let's save Mike routine". I don't need to be saved, nor do I want to. If I want to continue on this trail, let me. If you don't like it, fuck off. I could care less.
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And not everyone is worth fighting for. Some people deserve nothing else other than to die a horrible, painful death. The others...well, that's just a waste of time.
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But, what really got me was that you think people who try to help others or their friends are somehow trying to "save the world" or something of that sort. I don't think that is always the case... I am not on some noble quest when I try to help I am just trying to help. I don't know, I guess some people who help just want to be saints... Maybe "those" type of helpers are the problem.
OK. Don't know what I am talking about anymore. But, believe me, if I knew you in real life we would discuss this more.
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When I'm dead, six feet underground, you can look at my casket and say, "I told you so, asshole". Until then, keep your mouths shut and let me kill myself. I never asked nor cared what you thought of me.....
Alisha, you and I both know, when I'm six feet underground, it won't be for "no reason". You dont' want to admit it, but you know it's true.
Until then...live your lives and leave me the fuck alone. I'm starting to get real tired of this, "Let's save Mike routine". I don't need to be saved, nor do I want to. If I want to continue on this trail, let me. If you don't like it, fuck off. I could care less.
I really could.
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