Mik, you know full damn well there is a vast expanse of grey area between treating a woman like a princess and being a complete dickhead. Happy medium, my friend. Don't give too much unless you're sure she deserves it- but in the meantime be slightly aloof, not nasty.
*hugs* first of all for whatever has pushed you over the edge. Take it from me, treating a gal like shit won't get you far, if you're looking to find one that stays.
I agree with Jgirl, keep aloof, guard your heart while you appraise the situation, until you can be sure she's worthy of more than affection. But you certainly can't start a relationship by treating someone like crap just because the 90% before her were not worthy your attentions (you don't know yet if she is one of the 90%). Hang in there, the reason a lot of us are not married nor in a long term relationship is because 100% of our past relationships have not been up to par. Doesn't mean it can't happen in the future.
I'd hate to see you go the way of loser b/f. No matter what the chicks have done, be blameless in your behavior so that you can say you did your part. It is all you can do in a relationship (you can't do their part).
Its been an accumulation of things, the majority of which havent happened to me, so I'm certainly not down about anything.
I just dont care anymore. I certainly wont just treat every girl like shit, if I find someone who deserves better I'll give them better. Most dont though.
Nope. She is still an absolute angel. In a way I'd quite question her judgement if she did decide to go with me.
Its not something I need hugs over, its just a build up of things I've seen happen to me and other people over my life and I'd decided that I'm going to stop it from happening.
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Its dickhead all the way with me from now on until I find someone who is worth different.
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Generally, no. We like to call those ones "stupid bitches." :)
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And yes, you have had more girlfriends than I have.
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I agree with Jgirl, keep aloof, guard your heart while you appraise the situation, until you can be sure she's worthy of more than affection. But you certainly can't start a relationship by treating someone like crap just because the 90% before her were not worthy your attentions (you don't know yet if she is one of the 90%). Hang in there, the reason a lot of us are not married nor in a long term relationship is because 100% of our past relationships have not been up to par. Doesn't mean it can't happen in the future.
I'd hate to see you go the way of loser b/f. No matter what the chicks have done, be blameless in your behavior so that you can say you did your part. It is all you can do in a relationship (you can't do their part).
Lots of love and thoughts. :)
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I just dont care anymore. I certainly wont just treat every girl like shit, if I find someone who deserves better I'll give them better. Most dont though.
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Anywho, feel free to treat ladies however you want, until we are wed and you can treat me like a Queen for the rest of our days.
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Apostrophes must be a side-effect of my being drunk. I'm surprisingly eloquent too "contentious" and "predominantly". I should be drunk more often.
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If it is, see, this is the other side of the coin. If they're willing to cheat on someone for you... they're just not that nice :(
*hugs*
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Its not something I need hugs over, its just a build up of things I've seen happen to me and other people over my life and I'd decided that I'm going to stop it from happening.
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