I am doing my best, I have 3 exhausting days behind me, but almost everything's already settled, I can't believe I had this kind of strength in me. Even my mom told me so, she even said to my dad "darling I think we don't have to worry about our girl", she praised me because she always, thought I was meek, but she saw my efficiency first hand when talking to the lawyer. Well, a woman has to do what a woman must do.
Do you know, my name is Isabelle too. ♥ And Isa's tend to be strong women. ;)
Three days is good. It totally slipped my mind, trying to think of words to comfort you and failing, but your three days reminded me. It's an old story I read long ago, and I've forgotten the title and the author. But I always remember what the wise old lady said.
When trouble comes, wait three days. And if it doesn't get better, wait three days more. And another three days, as long as it takes.
The message, of course, is hope, and patience, and survival. I've somehow never forgotten that, and I always do wait three days. More often than not, the first three days are enough. At least to get a foothold again; to realize that I can get through this.
And hey guess what! Your three days are up! You made it! ♥
I am fine Ellen, everything's settled already, at least the talking and dividing, my husband did a fair deal for me with everything, in the end this way he's a good guy. I did a rally through everything juristic yesterday, just to assure that nothing happens to me or my son, and we both get what we need. I don't even need an extra lawyer. Austria is a haven this way. The last step is to make everything official, which should be done within 2 months time.
Austria is a haven this way. There is no loss for me financially, except when my Ex dies, then I get nothing, but that is the same for him too, but my son still will.
So, see I am all better already. The world started spinning again for me. Soon hopefully normal will be something real again.
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Thanks for your kindness,
hugs and kisses
Isa
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Three days is good. It totally slipped my mind, trying to think of words to comfort you and failing, but your three days reminded me. It's an old story I read long ago, and I've forgotten the title and the author. But I always remember what the wise old lady said.
When trouble comes, wait three days.
And if it doesn't get better, wait three days more.
And another three days, as long as it takes.
The message, of course, is hope, and patience, and survival. I've somehow never forgotten that, and I always do wait three days. More often than not, the first three days are enough. At least to get a foothold again; to realize that I can get through this.
And hey guess what! Your three days are up! You made it! ♥
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If I could squeeze you.
Hugs, hugs, love
Isabella
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love and hugs
ellen
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The last step is to make everything official, which should be done within 2 months time.
Austria is a haven this way. There is no loss for me financially, except when my Ex dies, then I get nothing, but that is the same for him too, but my son still will.
So, see I am all better already. The world started spinning again for me. Soon hopefully normal will be something real again.
Hugs and tons of love
Isa
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