Beast Right Up In Your Face

[mind_wire]

Today one of my friends said to me jokingly "You should throw an orgy party" which in due time lead to me thinking "I SHOULD THROW AN ORGY PARTY" just before realizing "Oh wait, whoops. I don't have nearly enough friends interested in orgies to make this anything more than maybe a threesome maybe."

Haha, oh well.

Comments

[donnaidh_sidhe]

Could try actual sex parties, for starters. But they tend to be full of middle-aged swingers.

[mind_wire]

Mm. I'm not entirely serious about this whole thing...finding a random group of a bunch of people I don't know seems all kinds of sketchy to me.

Still, I think it'd be fun with people I know, heh heh. Must be the Greek in me.

[donnaidh_sidhe]

[mind_wire]

Ahaha! Mmyep.

[dinospine]

one week:
"boohoo, I'm addicted to sex."
next week:
"I want to have an orgy."

???
Dude, if you're making posts about your "sex problem," asking for advice and it's not just to brag, but you actually think you have a problem, then starting down the orgy road is probably the worst thing you could do.

Likewise with you "ver drug problem"
If your next post is about how badly you want to go on a bender,
I'm going to have to put my "father-figure" foot up your ass.

[mind_wire]

Not with drugs, no, that is a completely different issue in itself that for obvious reasons has to be put behind me now.
Wouldn't call that ver either, Ian. It was a lot worse than I'd ever post in here, and I don't really want to go into it.

With the sex? I donno, I was pretty much joking. Sure it'd be fun, it's always something I've thought of trying, but this entry was all tongue-in-cheek dude.
At the same time I don't feel I have a crazy huge sex problem, just that relying on it alone to heal me is something of an issue.

Hope that clears things up for you.

[dinospine]

I guess because you've fucked every one of my girlfriends that you've been in contact with, from my perspective your sex problem does appear to be as big as your drug problem. That's not the issue, though. I just think it shows disrespect towards the people who give you advice, to turn around completely and make a post saying that you want the exact opposite. Because even if you intended your "sex addiction" post as humour, some of the people who responded seemed to take it seriously, and take the time to write you some serious advice. It's important to respect people who want to help you, even if they are doing so from misunderstanding a joke.

As for serious drug problems, maybe yours has gotten more out of hand than you had initially intended, but as someone who's lost multiple friends to overdoses, I'd say that you don't appear to be heading down that route. Then again, maybe I don't really know you that well, and it's somehow worse than I've seen.

[mind_wire]

I suppose some could take it that way. I was referring to this post as a sort of joke, not the other.
Usually I cope with exiting a serious relationship by sleeping with other people, and at the time of the other post I was starting to wonder if it was getting out of control. It probably was.
Regardless I've slowed down now, so it's no longer a major concern of mine. I've been practically celibate this past month (not January...December). I did take everyone's advice into consideration, other people's views on the situation certainly played a part in my slowing down.
Thaaaaat being said, I see little harm in wondering what an orgy would be like.

[_rainbowslut_]

Cheers to that!

[mind_wire]

:D