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* what is your name?: lauren
* what is the current date?: feb 11
* what is your sex?: female
* what is your birthday?: aug 17
* what is your current relationship status?: single
* what is your sexual orientation? Straight
* are you afraid to ask people out on dates?: yes
single life
* if you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?: yes.
* what are the positive points about being single?:you have a lot of time for friends, school, & other stuff
* what are the negative points about being single?: you’re single.
* when single, do you often find youself longing for companionship?: yep
* how well do you handle rejection?: um. i get pissed but I get over it
* do you miss your last sweetie?: no
* do you think it's better to look for love, or let it find you?: let it find you. but you've got to put a little bit of effort into looking for it as well.
when you're in a relationship
* if you're currently in a relationship right now, how long have you been in it?:
* what's the longest relationship you've been in?: a year
* the shortest?: 2 weeks
* what are the positive points about being in a relationship?: you've got someone to be with, and someone to hold at any given time.
* what are the negative points about being in a relationship?: it depends on the person
* have you ever gone out with someone you didn't know very well?: nope
* have you ever gone out with someone you had a crush on?: yeah.
* have you ever gone out with someone who had a crush on you?: yeah.
* do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together, or space things out a tad?: both
* have you ever found yourself worried about commitment?: no
* when involved, do you try to think about the here-and-now, or do you often think about the future?: both
* when in a fight, it is better to euphamize things to soften the hurt, or should one be blunt?: well. don't be overly blunt. but don't lie about things either.
* how do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?: well I have done it… and it gets frustrating
feelings
* do you have a crush right now?: yeah
* do they know?: nope… I don’t think so
* what's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?: so far half a year
* have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?: yeah
* has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?: yes
* do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?: a random few ppl
* how do you feel about long-distance relationships?: they usually dont work.
* if so, does a phone call with them make you feel better of worse?: i wouldn't know
* would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?: at my age… no.
* what would you do if you got pregnant / made her pregnant while in a relationship?: it wont happen.
*how big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?: not an issue.
* how big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?: not an issue for me
* in a potential mate, how important is conversation to you?: kind of important
* in a potential mate, how important is sense of humor to you?: very
* in a potential mate, how important is understanding to you?: very
* in a potential mate, how important is forgiveness to you?: there shouldn't be much to forgive, but it should be there.
* what makes your heart flutter, and brings a bit cheesy smile to your face?: the person in general.
* are you a virgin?: yep
*if not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?:
* how old were you when you lost your virginity?:
* have you ever had sex with someone you loved?:
* have you ever turned down an offer for sex?:
* if you are a virgin, what are your reasons to stay that way?: i haven't met the right person and im waiting till im married
* do you believe in love?: yes.
* do you believe in love at first sight?: no
* what would it take for you to love someone?: i don't know. it just clicks.
* has someone ever told you they loved you?: .yeah.
* have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?: yeah.
* have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?:
* do you believe it's necessary to express your love in words, of is just the atmosphere and feelings enough?: words are necessary.
* do you believe love can end, or do you think it never goes away, and just changes, or what?: i think love can change drastically. but it never completely goes away.
* have you ever been married?: nope
* if you're currenlty not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?: one day.
* do you plan on having children some day?: sure.
* what are your feelings on polyamoury (an "open" marriage, aka: swinging)?: no
* have you ever had your heart broken?: ..yeah.
* have you ever been dumped?: yeah
* have you ever dumped someone?: yeah
* has a mate ever made you cry?: yeah
* did you cry in thier presence?: yeah
* did you cry with them?: no
* have you ever made a mate cry?: most likely
* have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?: yes
* have you ever been cheated on? if so, how did it make you feel?: yeah it fucking sucked
* have you ever had to end a relationship due to life changes not related to romance (ie: moving, strict parents, etc)?: yeah
* have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?: i've learned alot
* have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?: yeah.
* did it work?: no
* do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together, or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break-up will resurface?: i think it depends on the relationship.
* have you ever broke up and remained friends afterward?: no
* have you ever broke up and became bitter enemies?: no we just don’t talk
* if so, did you ever made amends?:
* have you ever broke up and lost touch?: yeah
* have you ever got back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?: uhh no
* do you ever check up on old flames (weather by asking mutual friends, for example), without actually contacting them?: no but I do hear things about them
* if you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone who you loved, how did it make you feel?:
* have you ever longed to get back together with someone?: yes
* although it surely depends of specific relationships, how long does it take before your out looking for companionship again?: it depends on the relationship & the person i was in the relationship with