Strange fate..

[minervax]

Sometimes I can't help but believe in fate, kismet, God's blessings...My husband--where did he come from? He is the perfect person for me. He is supportive, an amazing father, calm when I am anxious, understanding, forgiving, loving...what the hell

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[prudies]

I totally get what you're saying!

I feel like the year after you have the baby will make or break a marriage. Although I never thought about divorce during this past year, I can totally see how people go down that road. It would be easy to not make time to talk to each other, to take each other for granted, you know? Maybe it wouldn't be easy though, come to think of it. I'd be lonely. And when things were tough this year, I knew we had to keep talking to figure out how to keep connecting. Hmm.

[minervax]

But it is odd--in a way, we don't talk, we don't connect.

We sit around looking at our baby and going SHE IS SO BEYOOTIFUL! SHE IS SO SMAAART! We are just like a two person cult and the baby is the cult leader.

So the whole 'us' thing is kind of out the window. But we are so happy together, doing this...being baby-lovin' freaks! I've never been happier and he says he has never been happier.

In a few years, will we go--yuck! I hate you!? I don't think so...ya know those couples who have golf in common or whatever...they enjoy their time together. And so we have our girl together and it's like our hobby and our shared obsession. I can't imagine it will ruin us.