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Sep 28, 2006 14:06

well, did the dumping. She's taking it really hard and doesn't seem to understand but hopefully she'll figure it out.

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lzzybeth September 28 2006, 22:16:56 UTC
Sorry to hear that! A decision like that with what was at stake (your job) is never easy to make, but it's necessary. You've got to do what's necessary to get your life in order and accomplish your goals, even if it's hard or it hurts. I know you're fully capable Dave, just remind yourself why you've got to stick with it. Use that Libra logic of yours! ;)

Does the boss man know you two are currently living together? I hope that doesn't cause you problems either. EEK.

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minstrel_dave September 28 2006, 23:19:10 UTC
he does, that was part of the reason we had to split up. Joe told me the other day that too many people are talking and if I don't fix the problem he will.

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lzzybeth September 29 2006, 00:07:09 UTC
If sounds like if you want to keep your job, you're also going to have to ask her to move out. You've already said she can afford it. I've just read her MySpace...it sounds like she thinks all will be well if you just go to another club... It's the SAME management, it's not as if POOF! it's erased. Word of you two WILL get around at that club too because you know how people talk. It'll only be a matter of time, it could be your firing the next time around instead of just a warning. I don't think she's going to give you up and it's going to get even more difficult because of her living with you. She's likely to cost you your job if it keeps going this way. Tread carefully.

What a sucky situation. I'm sorry Dave. :(

Know what WILL solve this situation? Her doing something else for a living. I'd talk to her about that if you want to stay together.

Good luck!!

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minstrel_dave September 29 2006, 01:43:00 UTC
If we were worknig at different clubs it would be fine, they just don't want people fraternizing with the girls at the club they work at

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tmercenary September 29 2006, 07:13:06 UTC
wait till after the party next weekend, and after she pays her rent, then kick her to the curb.

Just my 2 cents.

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