Pre-Marriage

Sep 22, 2008 22:57

Pre-Marriage )

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cutepoisonlola September 23 2008, 16:54:50 UTC
Wow! A cultural difference here!

And I can't even imagine what it will feel like to live together not "in sin." I won't have to hide the fact from casual professional acquaintances that we wake up together and have breakfast together so easily because we sleep in the same bed--it will just be expected.

No one in Finland has to hide this sort of thing in any situations. An unmarried couple living together is perfectly normal. In fact, it's expected for young couples to live together for a few years before getting married. And if a couple gets married before they've lived together for 2-5 years, people will roll their eyes and think the couple is being irresponsible, plunging into a marriage without even knowing each other properly!

And there's something just a little bit weird about a married chick going out and grooving in a club until two a.m. with a group of girlfriends. Not that that will stop me, but it makes me sad that it will be a little bit weird.You should move here! ;) You could party until 7 a.m. and it wouldn't be ( ... )

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ceciliaj September 23 2008, 22:05:06 UTC
I like white_quill's response. And mireille, you will be wonderful. I am so full of excitement for you both.

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