listen, girl, you're gonna end up fucking up a lot of your life if you end up marrying someone when you are having emotional issues and uncertain about yourself or your future.
you've been alive less than 20 years, and you'll be married to the same guy, with the same problems, the same issues, the same everything, for hypothetically 80 years max. you don't want to jump into something when you havent thought it through, nor lived with him to figure out if you even can stand him more than 20 hours a day every day for the rest of your life. you need to know all of his quirks. everything, like in 4 years is he gonna start beating you, or is he going to neglect people, like his children. and it's so easy to say "I know him so well" now, but you have to understand that people change. sometimes with you, sometimes without you, and people can grow apart. dont jump into something without knowing where both your paths lie.
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listen, girl, you're gonna end up fucking up a lot of your life if you end up marrying someone when you are having emotional issues and uncertain about yourself or your future.
you've been alive less than 20 years, and you'll be married to the same guy, with the same problems, the same issues, the same everything, for hypothetically 80 years max. you don't want to jump into something when you havent thought it through, nor lived with him to figure out if you even can stand him more than 20 hours a day every day for the rest of your life. you need to know all of his quirks. everything, like in 4 years is he gonna start beating you, or is he going to neglect people, like his children. and it's so easy to say "I know him so well" now, but you have to understand that people change. sometimes with you, sometimes without you, and people can grow apart. dont jump into something without knowing where both your paths lie.
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