Well our choices are what I thought they would be. Cincinnati or Charleston, South Carolina. And this change will happen in 30 days regardless of which one is picked
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That's a tough one. I agree, it would be an easier decision if he made the extra money on his salary. I mean, what if things get bad for the company - bonuses aren't guaranteed especially if the company isn't doing well
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That is a hard decision!!! I do not mind moving around (which is a good thing since we are military). It is very hard to make new friends though. In my opinion I would do whatever is best for the family! Is this a positive move for your family. Will you see your hubby more or less? Will he have better chances of advancing? Is it more money? There are so many factors to consider. I hope things work out for you and you guys can sit down and come to a decision. It is so hard to make those kinds of choices when they affect your life like that. Your family will be in my prayers.
Sometimes things work out for a reason. Maybe SC is the place to go. Make a new start and depending on what they offer him, maybe you won't have to work. Try and get him to compromise with you. Maybe you can go to part time. Kevin talks about moving to SC all the time. I tell him if we do I won't work because I know no one done there and so no one will be watching my kids. Tell Ben that, tell him that you don't want to work cause you don't know anyone so who can you trust to watch the boys. Maybe then he'll suggest part time or something while Brock is in school. Who knows, he may tell them no thinking they'll come back with more money and then they won't and it'll be Cincinnati. I guess you'll just have to see how the chips fall. I'm sure it'll all work out in the end.
Everyone tells me how they would love to move to the Carolinas. Why is that? The weather maybe? I think they will be generous with Ben when the time comes. If you read my more recent post, I don't think Charleston is our option anymore. We'll find out later this week. Moving scares the hell out of me though and my mom will be heart broken. We might end up in Cincinnati after all. If that's what is meant to be then it will I guess. I figure I will need to work to live the lifestyle we would like to live and so being by the beach is no big deal anymore since I have to work anyways! ha. That is what I have rationalized in my mind anyways. lol
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I hope things work out for you and you guys can sit down and come to a decision. It is so hard to make those kinds of choices when they affect your life like that. Your family will be in my prayers.
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