Hiiiiiiiii, I'm sorry I haven't been replying , Hontony Gomene... So you are in Japan, I'm so glad you’re enjoying your time. I have a suggestion for you, why don't you try saying in Japan for a while? You don't have to quit your job back in US just take unpaid leave if you have no paid leave days left. You can look for another temporary job in Japan. Give a shot and see how things go. If you find the happiness you are looking for that would be great, yet if you realized your old life was much better then you can still have the chance to go back. What do you think? I hope you will find a solution soon enough P.S: I have a request, I hope this doesn't sound rude...would you please write about your observation in Japan. I mean the culture differences and such I'm really eager to know
Hello =) How are you? That sounds like a good idea to go on an unpaid leave of absence but most likely it means the job will be gone by the time I come back. Companies would not like that. I don't really care though. I feel I have changed as a person after this trip and I'll tell you how later~
I will definitely be blogging about all the observations I made in Japan. I was so shocked!
I can't wait for your posts :) I'm doing great thank you ^_^, I hope you have changed to be a better person. Yeah you are probably right about the job being gone by the time you are back. Why don't you try applying for jobs at other firms I'm sure if you are working in a better environment where you won't be bother by that wicked witch you will definitely feel happier.
Hmm sometimes I don't think that wicked witch (as you call it LOL!) is the main problem. I can't identify exactly what makes me so depressed being here. I think it's got to do with lonliness as I am living here by myself and have no friends. When I was in Japan, I had such a good time and good friends and met a lot of new people. Japanese people are so kind that it touches my heart, that I could feel I belong here with them.
My obsession had mostly to do with money but after this, money isn't so much important anymore. If I took some random job in Japan, of course I'd be taking a very large paycut! Saa...
First I hope u had a good time in japan, well I know u did ^^.
second, I think I know how u feel I think I would feel the same, since I kinda did when I came back from the states last year, I hadn't been there for like 6 years so it was a culture shock for me and I didnt wanna leave thinking I should just stay there XD.
if u start a new life in japan, take me with you XD we can start one together ♥♥♥
You go girl. I know we just spoke about this over msn, but yeah...do what makes you happy, y'know? I know it may be risky to shift careers and all, but if u can make it happen, then go for it. Life's too short to live it unhappy.
I really hope I'll be able to make it to Japan one day and experience the feelings you're going through right now, it must've felt beyond amazing, yet sad at the same time that you had to leave it behind...-for now- XD
kame, i missed you so much ♥ I love the things you say, you are totally right, life is too short to live it unhappy =( I hope you will go to Japan sometime soon, you would also fall in love with it.
Yeah it is a big decision. I know it seems like the right one to go for happiness. Keep in mind of course the new life will be really challenging. Getting on your feet and getting to understand everything over, wanting to know what you will do there etc. Overtime it'll also turn into a normallife that you're used to after you've lived there enough, just like with any place.
I've heard of people also falling in love with Japan in the same way so of course you aren't alone <3
ah wish i could experience this with you. mwa! take your time to decide things out eh? You've got time
three words: GOOD FOR YOU! (wait, i actually mean it. the phrase is usually meant in a sarcastic sense but ... seriously, after seeing hwo you've wanted a change for so long, and how happy being in Japan has made you, I mean it wholeheartedly ♥) Obviously there'll be things that will be flawed (I dunno, the healthcare system or soemthing? LOL I have no idea what it's like in Japan but make sure you check this stuff out okay? ;__; I don't think stuff like that would put you off going there, but be prepared for it, ne :) But yeahhh- I'm glad you've found a place you love so much :D GO FOR THE JOB!
Thanks, I want to go for it! Japan wo mezashite! Even Japan has flaws, it's things I can live with. besides, it total ikemen paradise everywhere you go..<3
LOLOL 'Japan wo mezashite' xDD♥ and hommggg it'd be a good place for you to follow fashion trends, too, since you've been looking for inspiration there :D (did you go to the cinema in Japan? I have nooo idea whether it'd be the same or different, but when I went to cinemas in HK, THE CONCENTRATION OF HOT GUYS SUDDENLY INCREASED 10 FOLD *__________________________* )
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I'm sorry I haven't been replying , Hontony Gomene...
So you are in Japan, I'm so glad you’re enjoying your time.
I have a suggestion for you, why don't you try saying in Japan for a while? You don't have to quit your job back in US just take
unpaid leave if you have no paid leave days left. You can look for another temporary job in Japan. Give a shot and see how things go. If you find the happiness you are looking for that would be great, yet if you realized your old life was much better then you can still have the chance to go back. What do you think? I hope you will find a solution soon enough
P.S: I have a request, I hope this doesn't sound rude...would you please write about your observation in Japan.
I mean the culture differences and such I'm really eager to know
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That sounds like a good idea to go on an unpaid leave of absence but most likely it means the job will be gone by the time I come back. Companies would not like that. I don't really care though. I feel I have changed as a person after this trip and I'll tell you how later~
I will definitely be blogging about all the observations I made in Japan. I was so shocked!
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I'm doing great thank you ^_^, I hope you have changed to be a better person.
Yeah you are probably right about the job being gone by the time you are back. Why don't you try applying for jobs at other firms I'm sure if you are working in a better environment where you won't be bother by that wicked witch you will definitely feel happier.
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My obsession had mostly to do with money but after this, money isn't so much important anymore. If I took some random job in Japan, of course I'd be taking a very large paycut! Saa...
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second, I think I know how u feel I think I would feel the same, since I kinda did when I came back from the states last year, I hadn't been there for like 6 years so it was a culture shock for me and I didnt wanna leave thinking I should just stay there XD.
if u start a new life in japan, take me with you XD we can start one together ♥♥♥
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I really hope I'll be able to make it to Japan one day and experience the feelings you're going through right now, it must've felt beyond amazing, yet sad at the same time that you had to leave it behind...-for now- XD
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I've heard of people also falling in love with Japan in the same way so of course you aren't alone <3
ah wish i could experience this with you.
mwa! take your time to decide things out eh? You've got time
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GOOD
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(wait, i actually mean it. the phrase is usually meant in a sarcastic sense but ... seriously, after seeing hwo you've wanted a change for so long, and how happy being in Japan has made you, I mean it wholeheartedly ♥) Obviously there'll be things that will be flawed (I dunno, the healthcare system or soemthing? LOL I have no idea what it's like in Japan but make sure you check this stuff out okay? ;__; I don't think stuff like that would put you off going there, but be prepared for it, ne :)
But yeahhh- I'm glad you've found a place you love so much :D GO FOR THE JOB!
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(did you go to the cinema in Japan? I have nooo idea whether it'd be the same or different, but when I went to cinemas in HK, THE CONCENTRATION OF HOT GUYS SUDDENLY INCREASED 10 FOLD *__________________________* )
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