Maybe, at this point in time, you might want to reassess things and define for yourself what is your aim for the next year or so. Having an aim in life and working towards it eliminates the possibility of wasting time and energy angsting over things that cannot be changed anymore. You can't look back - you can only move forward. Give yourself more time to get over this. I don't think anyone ever gets over heartbreaks in a matter of weeks or even months. But at the same time, you have to realise what you are living for and keeping a healthy mind - and like you said, you lost a lot of friends because you kept your life revolving around him - spend more times with the people you lost connection with. You haven't lost your friends - you just haven't kept in touch. You'll be surprised with what a call/sms/meet up can do ;)
heyy xue.. thanks for your response. i was surprised to receive it actually
ur right.. i havent kept in touch for a long time. i turn up for the gatherings and stuff but i havent been a good friend on a constant basis.. yeah im taking this time off to really think abt what i really want.
so so anyhow i'll try to organise a meetup soon! everyone's so busy! thanks for caring (:
everything will be great! trust me! your situation is so familiar to me...and ..yeah, it's banally, but it's really works: time heals. I know it. everything becomes past..your happiness and love are waiting you! I wish New Year gives you new friends, new feelings, new impressions and new LOVE!
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Maybe, at this point in time, you might want to reassess things and define for yourself what is your aim for the next year or so. Having an aim in life and working towards it eliminates the possibility of wasting time and energy angsting over things that cannot be changed anymore. You can't look back - you can only move forward. Give yourself more time to get over this. I don't think anyone ever gets over heartbreaks in a matter of weeks or even months. But at the same time, you have to realise what you are living for and keeping a healthy mind - and like you said, you lost a lot of friends because you kept your life revolving around him - spend more times with the people you lost connection with. You haven't lost your friends - you just haven't kept in touch. You'll be surprised with what a call/sms/meet up can do ;)
Keep your head held high girl.
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ur right.. i havent kept in touch for a long time. i turn up for the gatherings and stuff but i havent been a good friend on a constant basis.. yeah im taking this time off to really think abt what i really want.
so so anyhow i'll try to organise a meetup soon! everyone's so busy! thanks for caring (:
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